Hey ladies,

I've got one of those dilemmas that we're all faced with when going through this crap. I'm supposed to go to this thing on sat night with a group of friends but most of them are UTD so don't know if it's just going to make me pine for what could have been and have a crap night (and majorly depressed week). My bro and SIL are going and are due right when my previous pg would have been due and one couple have only just announced - I haven't even seen them since their news. I have a feeling another couple (whose house we're going to) might make an announcement too. So, it's not like I can just forget about it for the night - it will be the featured topic. Should I go and just get blind drunk and be happy for everyone or should I stay home and feel sorry for myself? What would you do?