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thread: LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #3

  1. #163
    2013 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Apr 2009
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    Thank you all for your lovely messages. Just got back from ED again. They think my adhesions are causing the pain or a kidney stone but they said there was no blood in the urine so the stone was unlikely. Anyway they scanned me again and they "think" there "might" be a gestational sac with a yock sac in the uterus but no sign of a fetal pole. They said it was the size of about 4weeks pregnant but still couldn't rule out ectopic although its probably not likely. Weird hey? LMP was 7/7 so 36days ago. Now they said to wait another 10days for a scan instead of the 10days on Sunday so my appointment is changed again. Thats ok however. I am just glad and so happy they have found something maybe in the uterus.

  2. #164
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
    Victoria
    576

    Mildez - Things are sounding good... i know you dont wanna get your hopes up but its seeming more and more positive everyday! Praying for you and a healthy sticky bub for you! Wouldnt it be an amazing miracle!! xx

  3. #165
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    i'm b-a-c-k,hugs to all,been thinking of you all,just felt a bit quite of late..sunbeam-sorry for the loss of bub...mildez-hope the good news keeps coming...alice-yah for day 1...porche-hope your good news keeps coming too...dh needs computer so have to leave the personals at that..afm-i've started hormone replacement tablets,hoping i get to transfer day this time around,this cycle 2 years ago was when i feel pregnant with Matthew,that has been playing with my head & heart ...

  4. #166
    Registered User

    Mar 2010
    335

    Oh me too! me too! *Hijack*
    I know quite a few of you from the original MC and Loss thread and wanted to say hi.... so much stuff happening in here at the moment. I miss you all from the other thread. I'm lurking both places. Not sure where i belong really. Been TTC #2 for 14 mths now. Not sure when i turn into a LTTTC so i'll just continue to float around a bit.

    Ferrals: good luck for your scan
    Mildez: Your results are sounding better and better. So hope this is it for you. FX.
    Alice: So pleased for you that you have your foot on the threshold of your IVF. White pyjamas must have worked!
    Saffy: best of luck for this cycle. (Not sure what you are sniffing but i hope it works!)
    Porsche: Great result on laying so many eggs. GL for ET.
    Sunbeam: So very sorry for you losing your angel. Hope you get some comfort from your specialists this week.
    Crafty: good luck for your move. I like it: new house, new baby!
    T-hopes: Hi again. One month to go. I would love to see you get an 11th hour BFP like Mildez just before you start your cycle!

    Sorry if i've missed anyone in the hellos. Hijack over!

  5. #167
    Platinum Member. 2010 RAK Recipient

    Jun 2009
    455

    hello hijackers!!

    Possum, lovely to see your name, as always, and so sorry for your recent loss. How're you doing?
    MatthewsMum, sorry you are nearing another anniversary for Matthew. I hope this cycle works for you and you get your BFP.
    Mildez, that's all sounding very positive, keeping my fingers crossed for you and looking forward to hearing your next result.
    Ferrals, of course you would be dreading today, I totally understand that, but like you say your symptoms are so strong so we know there's a bub in there (maybe two!) and I hope all will be well no matter what xx
    Sunbeam, glad yesterday wasn't as hard as you were fearing and that you got a lot of love and support from your colleagues. Good luck for Friday's appointment.

    Sorry to rush everyone, got to get a train this morning. I'm a goose - started to taking the yellow pills straight up and think I was supposed to be just doing the sugar ones so AF has slowed down. I'm out of practice! Better make sure I get a reminder on everything else - DH would kill me if I stuffed up anything this cycle.

  6. #168
    Platinum Subscriber

    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
    2,172

    Hi Matthew'smum-welcome back! wow, 2 years ago no wonder you feel sad, hopefully your angel matthew will watch over you and send you a special baby this cycle

    Possummagic-nice to see you too! You are more than welcome to join us old hands here, I would classify you as a LTTTCer ( as much as none of us want to be ) but if you want to just lurk go for it, sorry you have to be back here too ps I'm sniffing syneral

    Alice-I almost thought I'd done the same thing, when i saw the nurse she said "you're only taking the hormone tablets aren't you" and I'd taken the sugar pills initally when AF started, but she said that was ok, I felt like a fool for a minute there! I will say the meds are a bit confusing even though they write it out for you ( and I've been a midwife for 12years you would think I would be able to get it straight). I'm sure it doesn't matter that you took a hormone tablet anyway.

    Mildez- fingers crossed for you, really hope its a sticky one xx

    Sunbeam- glad the work day went well, and hope you get some answers ( and that AF hurries up) xx

    Thopes-hope you catch that egg this time, otherwise we will be here with you for ivf xx

    POrsche- how are you feeling today? You must be stoked about the numbers, your baby will be one of those embies!!!

    Crafty- hope the new house is great!! Hows the TWW going?

    Ferals- good luck with your scan today xx

    AFM- not much happening, have been spotting every day since I've been on the BCP, now it is getting heavier, grrrr annoying, I wish it would just go away so I can have a break, cos Ithink I will start bleeding when I start the syneral in a few days. Oh well, hopefully I will have 9 months without it soon....
    Does anyone else live in Victoria? I am so sick of the cold weather here, winter is so depressing bring on spring!!!

  7. #169
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    In a House in a Street
    1,138

    Hi Ladies

    Mildez - Things are sounding much better. I know you don't want to get too excited just yet. But at least it all looks OK.

    Possum - You can lurk here all you like. When are you having your TF?

    Saffy - That sucks about the spotting. I know how you feel for 2 cycle after my M/C I had spotting after AF for 2 rotten weeks so I feel you. It drove me insane. How long are you on BCP for? Synarel shouldn't make you bleed.

    Matthews Mum - I missed you lol. I wondered where you had gotten to.

    AFM getting excited for ET tomorrow. It is so amazing how science has given us this opportunity. I'm forever greatful to the original Dr's for their experiments in IVF. it's certainly come a long way.

  8. #170
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    afternoon everyone,alice-thanks,it all gets confusing,i didn't have to take sugar pills though,so i think you'll be fine...saffy-thanks,i think the spotting will probably stop when bcp stops...porshe-good luck for tomorrow,will you get to see embie on screen before transfer?..possummagic-i still lurk/post in both threads,i love this thread but i've lurked/posted in the other from the start of this journey ,i am determined to try to stay until i can post a bfp in there

  9. #171
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
    Victoria
    576

    possum!! Good to see your name in here! have tried to PM you back your mailbox is full! will chat soon love! So very welcome here!! xx

    matthewsmum - have missed you! hope everything goes well for you in this cycle, good luck! you will be posting your bfp in here very soon!!

    Porsche! Tomorrow is the big day!! Good luck darlin!!! Hope the little embie buries in nice and snug for a healthy 9mths ahead!

    Love to everyone ive missed!! xx

    Saffy - Yes I live in Vic (melb) !! Its so cold I can barely feel my toes!! Hate the cold! Here here to bringing on Spring!!!

    Ferrals - have been thinking of you all day, praying that all is perfect! xx

  10. #172

    Apr 2009
    central coast
    2,298

    Afternoon ladies thankyou for mentioning me i have had a really long day on 5 hours sleep so i am stuffed but i have good news.
    I had my scan bub is fine just the one (which i am very happy about) heartbeat of 126 and measuring perfect EDD is the 30th of march my Bday is the 2nd of April so i will have a great Bday present now just the 4 and a half week wait for our cvs hopefully i can keep this bubby i am inlove already.

    I will pop back in after i have some sleep thinking of you all.

  11. #173
    2013 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Apr 2009
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    Thats fantastic news Ferrals woohoo.

  12. #174
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
    Victoria
    576

    Wonderful news Ferrals!!! Congrats!!! xx

  13. #175
    Platinum Member. 2010 RAK Recipient

    Jun 2009
    455

    Congratulations Ferrals! That's such lovely news. Fingers crossed for your next scan and what a beautiful birthday present for next year. So happy for you xxx
    Porsche, good luck tomorrow! Can't wait to hear how it all goes. How many embies did you get? Do you know yet? Are they day 3 or day 5??? So excited for you.
    Saffy, we're on different meds by the sound of it - I haven't had the sniffer before (I think that's like the Lucrin injection I have? Not sure). I will ring the nurse in the morning just to be clear about which OCP I'm supposed to be taking 'cause for the life of me I can't remember. It seems to make sense not to have the sugar ones but then what happens to AF?
    Last edited by Alice; August 12th, 2010 at 09:34 PM.

  14. #176
    Registered User

    Jun 2010
    Melbourne
    124

    Hello everyone

    I had my FET on Wednesday and it seemed to go well. It was a lot less painful that a fresh transfer. The embryoligist said the embie has successfully thawed and all the cells were alive.
    There were at least 8 women waiting for a transfer and they were over an hour late. I had to go to the toilet as I was in a lot of pain from keeping my bladder full.
    So now I'm in the TWW and I'm very nervous. I know how devasted I will be if I don't get a BFP this time.
    Sunbeam you have been in my thoughts. That's great news Ferrals and FX for the rest of your pregnancy. Porche good luck for today and we're in the TWW together. I hope this cycle brings you a BFP.
    Mildez, THopes, Crafty, Alice, Saffy I thinking of you all even though I'm doing a lot of lurking. Have a great weekend.
    HappyBaby

  15. #177
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    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
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    Hi happybaby-wow how exciting, sounds like everything went well, for the TWW and heres hoping you get a nice fat BFP at the end xx I didn't know they make you have a full bladder before ET, great I am terrible at holding on!!!

    Ferals- yay for a great scan, knew it would be good, and I'm glad you are loving your little one xx

    Alice-what did the nurse say? i'm sure it is fine either way. The syneral is the suppression drug I think ( I am clueless about it all) or as the nurse said "it puts you into menopause" I'm dreading any drugs whose side effects are mood swings, thanks god I 've had a few months of being normal, DH is in for a rude shock soon oh dear

    Porsche -hope everything goes well today, you've done brilliantly so far!

    Matthew'smum- I can understand wanting to stay in the other thread to post your BFP, you will too. I notice there are quite a few bfp's in there lately, might be a good sign for you!

    Mildez- remaining quietly optomistic for you while you play the waiting game xx

    HI Crafty, Sunbeam, THopes, Possum and anyone else lurking xx

  16. #178
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    In a House in a Street
    1,138

    Hi Ladies

    Firstly I have an avvy ohhh it's so pretty!
    Well we have some good news an some bad news.

    Good news first. We are PUPO!!!!! We transfered 2x 3day embies. 1 was fantastic and 1 not so fantastic.

    Bad news is we lost 1 out of the 9 embryos leaving 8. So transfered 2 leaving 6. But those 6 are fragmented so they will try and get them to blasto and see how many we can freeze if any.

    Oh well never mind.

    Ferrals - Tha is fantastic news. I'm so happy for you.

    Alice - We got 9 embies but as I said before we lost one and the other 6 don't look so great.

  17. #179
    Platinum Subscriber

    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
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    Porsche- Congrats on being PUPO! Don't think about the other embies, just concentrate on positive vibes to your little one. Also- love your avy, I am waiting for one too, can't wait to see it!!

  18. #180
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    In a House in a Street
    1,138

    Saffy - I said to DH that is doesn't matter if we don't have any frosties. I know we can just start the process over again. If we just get 1 or 2 good ones for transfer then I am happy.

    I cheated with my avvy lol. I designed DH and myself and emailed it to the mods and they prettied it up with my fave colour and some sparkles lol. I've very happy. I'm anxiouly waiting for yours to pop up lol.

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