Possum- I'm in the same boat as you - I could write an essay on my analysis of the twinges/ cramps/ pains I am getting ( or imagining lol) at the moment, but i'm too hot to be bothered will save it for tomorrow. All I'll say is I get AF cramps in the middle/low, but I don't think I have ever got pg cramps- not that I've noticed anyway. I really hope yours are impantation cos they are a bit early to be AF aren't they? Or did this happen last month for you?
Hi Sunbeam ( great about your back) and Matthewsmum ( yay for december)
Sunbeam: Glad your back is mending. Wishing you every sticky vibe for IVF 2. Thanks for your support (and wise words for everyone). Lol re thinking pattern on the loo paper was blood (I can so imagine doing that too!) Enjoy camping!
Saffy: Look forward to reading your essay! How far into the TWW are you? (Sorry i'm losing track but i think you're a few days ahead of me?) Yes, i've had cramping like this a few times before 10 days before AF was due and BFN. When i was pg with DD i got AF type pain 10 days before AF was due but it wasn't across my tummy it was one spot each side, so, felt a bit different to AF. But i can't remember how i felt with my other two pgs as clearly (blocked it out i guess).
Mathewsmum: sorry you've been feeling low. I hope that you'll be feeling better and stronger by the time you come to do FET in December. Have you though about getting some extra support (apart from acupuncture?) Counselling?
MatthewsMum, I tried to PM you but your inbox is full. I hope Dec goes your way, you've been waiting so long, it would be a wonderful way to end the year. x
Saffy, how's the essay going? I write lists - in my head, on paper...we can't help ourselves, can we? When is your bt? Fingers crossed x
Sunbeam, LOL I've done that too (pattern on the loo paper). Oh yes, I'm a very wise woman as you can see...minus a few stupid things. Next time I will let sleeping rats lie (apparently I'm not an animal whisperer after all) and stick to driving when I'm, um, driving. At least Possum has reassured me I'm not alone! Glad you are managing the back pain better and enjoy your camping trip. I totally agree that it's good to try keep the whole IVF thing in balance with your life as much as possible. It's not always easy 'cause we think about it so much. Good luck with your next cycle.
Possum, thanks lovely, glad I'm not alone in the madness. Wish I could help with the cramps - the ones I got when I was pg were exactly the same as bad AF cramps (that I don't usually get), I was totally convinced it would be a BFN. Anyway, we all know our own bodies best but I'm hoping you're wrong and you get a nice surprise soon. When do you test?
Crafty, how are you lovely Crafty? Hope I didn't upset you with the clomid comment, just concerned for you that's all. I would love to see you with your BFP and hope you're getting closer every month to it becoming a reality. Believe me, I've had 10 years of what you've been feeling in the last 14 months, so I know how you feel and I know how much it hurts and how frustrating it is and it is probably even more frustrating when you know your body can do it and you've done it so many times before so why not now? x
Ferrals, glad to hear bub is perfect just such a bummer for you about the placenta...not to mention the sex! Hope it moves and you don't have to do bed rest in the new year. Fingers crossed. keep us posted, I miss all of you so much who have moved into the other thread but I find it hard to lurk there so glad to see your names pop up. Take care x
Toomanyshoes, has the headache gone? You poor thing, must feel awful.
Hi to all our other lurkers and anyone I've missed, hope everyone is doing well. I'd love to see some BFPs here before the year ends. I will be lurking some more then having a break until next year because of other things going on here. It'll be hard but I just have to be patient. Good luck everyone x
alice-sorry i missed your pm(i love hearing from you),box is all empty now...possummagic-yes ,i'm looking into some courses to help,as well trying to find out a bit about kinesology(apparently they have had a good success rate for depression).i've still got my fingers crossed for you ....saffy-you too...big hugs to all...afm-dr called & wants to see me tomorrow,talk about bt results i think.Be good to get her opinion on transfer for dec i suppose.Bought Matthew's anniversary card,it's got a blue teddy bear holding 2 balloons on it,it's gorgeous & i've got him a crystal teddy bear holding a star with 2008 inscriped on it.
Great news saffy guess your in the 1WW now ! FX your embie is snuggling in for the long ride !
Matthews mum lovely way to remember matthew can't beleive the aniversary is here again my goodness girl we been on here way toooo long ! hope your feeling really positive about your Dec trans if you beleive in yourself you can do anything !
Alice no you didn't upset me about the clomid I know I shouldn't have taken it but I was so desperate to give it a go my time is ticking on I am nearer 46 now than 45 and that scares me ! anyhow I trust my body will know what to do just one more time !
Sunbeam how your doing ?
Possum were are you at any news yet ?
afm well day 34 and have no idea whats going on had some light brown spotting for 2 days on day 32 and 33 but only really when I wiped no pad needed ! now all stopped and no cramping no headaches nothing, I did have lots of mucus up until day 30 so I wonder did I ovulate late ? no idea so waiting and waiting to see what happens by the way POAS was a BFN yesterday so guess I wait for AF to show !
MatthewsMum, I tried to PM you but your inbox is full. I hope Dec goes your way, you've been waiting so long, it would be a wonderful way to end the year. x
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