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thread: LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #5

  1. #235
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    May 2009
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    We need some BFP's in here!...How are all you lovely ladies going?

    I've had the week from hell...first logging onto my "huggies" account to enter a comp to be faced with "thanks for logging on, you're 23wks along your baby is growing bigger and doing xyz"!...thanks! The had DH's family christmas party for work on yesterday, someones wife was very very pregnant, only a few weeks to go, I couldn't stop staring at her belly I've broken out, the head aches are still happening, I have no idea where in my cycle I am and I'm trying to stick with it. Might give it another week or two and test but I would say it's highly unlikely.

    I have one friend due on Friday then another in 2 weeks, then another in a month, then another in a month and a bit...I wanna hide!

    My breasts we're extremely tender yesterday but it's gone now..I'm sure it's all in my head

  2. #236
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    Apr 2010
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    Hi girls,
    sorry I have been mia but had a rough weekend being a tww basketcase, culminating with me waking up this morning crying cos I don't feel pregnant, so went and poas and...bfp!
    So tentatively reporting this but don't have BT til Wednesday so will be celebrating once I get a good level. I did a crystal clear and the line was not strong but definate and came up straight away, so went and bought First Response and did one, the line is almost equal to the control so feeling better about that.

    Still struggling with the fact that my boobs don't feel pregnant but I have to get over it and believe in my body!

    Toomanyshoes-you have some good symptoms, I have a splitting headache today too. I went to a 40th on Sat night and had to watch my cousin's 17yo pregnant stepdaughter getting fawned over- I couldn't look at her, its difficult isn't it? It make you feel sh*t.

    possum-crazylady no.2 here! Its cos we're at the same time in our cycle, i could have killed DH yesterday! No reason lol. FX for Fri-you're nearly there.

    damprye- nice to see you, glad you and DP are going well but sorry you are having some 'issues' with everything else x

    india'smum- I don't know much about aspirin sorry, hopefully you can use something else like possum says x

    Matthewsmum- that sounded like a lovely thing to do for Matthew, hope you are feeling okxx

    Craftymummy-ohhh, that spotting sounds good, hope it was implantation!! Stay away AF!

    Sunbeam- hope the camping is going well x

    Hi everyone else!

  3. #237
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    Oh saffy

    Every pregnancy is different, but I can relate to panicking because you don't "feel" pregnant.

    lots and lots and lots and lots of and keeping everything crossed for you!

  4. #238
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    Mar 2010
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    Saffy that's excellent! Hurrah!
    Sending you powerful sticky vibes. Can't wait to hear results of your BT on Wednesday.

    Toomanyshoes: IKWYM about seeing pg people. It gets me down too: My two best friends are pg at the moment. I want to be happy for them but often when i see them i mainly feel sad about not having my own babies and resentful that it has come so easy for them. I can't really get past that but I try not to let them see how I feel. Hey, hope your headaches mean good news. Frustrating i'm sure.

    Damprye: Sounds like you've also had a rough week. Were you living with your mum and dad? I hope you've got some place to stay and that things work out ok for you.

    AFM: Still battling with myself over when to test, whether to hang out til Friday. I worked today and had a good day so that helped pass another day. Only 4 more days to go (i think. But my darned cycle has been getting shorter the last few months so not exactly sure. From 30 days down to 27 last month. Does anyone know what it means if your cycle length gets shorter?)

  5. #239
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    Jun 2009
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    Saffy, I'm doing a little happy dance for you and waiting til tomorrow to break out the fireworks. So so pleased for you lovely - keeping everything crossed that this/these (?! you had two put back right??) little one/s is/are coming home with you!

    Sorry ladies, I'm in a rush this morning so will be back later to add more.

    Possum, good luck for Friday. Shorter cycle just means you ovulated earlier from what I understand and that maybe your progesterone is stronger (I only say this because for the first time in years I've had a long cycle and I've been temping and discussing it each week with my acupuncturist so mine is going the opposite to yours!)(could be wrong though - there's probably lots of reasons).

    OK gotta go - love to everyone. Back later xx

  6. #240
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    Saffy - Yay yay yay a BFP at last, we've had a drought of them. I will be hanging to hear your bt results tomorrow. I'm so excited for you

    I haven't caught up on all the posts so I'll do personals later.

    AFM - Had a scan yesterday and I have 12 follies 10-13mm. I have another scan tomorrow and EPU will be friday or monday (bet it will be friday as that is far more inconvenient!). I had a lovely time camping, drank way too much, ate junk and totally chilled out with my bestie, awseome time . Unfortunately camping has stuffed my back again so I'm back to tennis ball therapy and painkillers but only one a day. My appt. with the neuro surgeon ahs been postponed until I have an MRI as my x-rays are too old for him to work from but I don't care I'm in a very "whatever" mood at the monent, just too happy and chilled out to stress.

  7. #241
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    Dec 2009
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    SAFFY! YAYAYYAYAYYA!!!!!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



    Sooo happy for you darling!!!!!!!!!! You've made my day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  8. #242
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
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    Sunbeam - Yay for all the follies!!! Good luck, i'll be stalking!!!!! xx

  9. #243
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    Saffy - Waaaaay to go!!!. I have been keeping my fingers crossed for you all week. Really pleased for you sweetie, can't wait to hear your BT's tomorrow.

    Sunbeam - It's nice to hear that you are so relaxed. Hope good things are coming your way very soon.

    Possum - my cycles vary between 27 and 32 days. I used to be 28 days like clockwork until I was 42 and then they started becoming a bit erratic. I still always go pregnant easily though, I just had to make sure we BD'ed enough to cover when ovulation might be.

  10. #244
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    Sep 2009
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    just a quick one from me

    Saffy Congrats well done I know you will be waiting for the BT results though but until then way to go girl ! and well I have not always felt pg until I got to around 8wks and sometimes before AF is due so you can never tell !
    Sunbeam congrats on the eggies FX your BFP will be on here soon too !


    AFM well still no AF still had a bfn on sunday so have given up have no idea where I am in my cycle could be day 38 could be day 7 who knows have had no headaches no cramping and no nothing so I am in the dark here !

  11. #245
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    Saffy - Congratulations! Thanks for coming through for me with the happy story :-) Don't worry about lack of symptoms yet, it is sooooo early. They will come. It is a very good sign you got your BFP so early. I am so very happy for you.

    So who is next? Possum? Vivid dreams are always my first symptom too, this is very exciting. When are you testing?

  12. #246
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    Mar 2010
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    Big Fat Negative

    Couldn't wait any more. I had cramping yesterday and sometimes it felt like AF and sometimes like pg. Tested at 4.30 this morning because i was busting for the loo and wanted to use FMU... and BFN. Feeling like cr@p today: crampy and horrible. AF due Friday. Not here yet but bound to show soon. I know i'll get over it once i'm a few days into the next cycle but right now feeling horribly grumpy.

  13. #247
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    possummagic- bl**dy bfn- sorry you got that, I hope there is still a chance for you, and AF never turns up xx

    Thanks EVERYONE for your congrats but I really think I am going to let you all down

    Just had my BT but have been spotting since last night and poas today with FMU was lighter than the last few days, doesn't feel like it is going to work really.

    I have to work until 10.30pm tonght so might not check back in til tomorrow.

    Good luck to everyone in TWW-

  14. #248
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    Saffy - don't give up yet, everyone here has everything crossed for you!

  15. #249
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    Hi Ladies

    Saffy - I wanted to wish you a tentative congratulations on your BFP. Spotting is very common in early pregnancy so don't panic just yet. Wait for your HCG levels to come back and see what your FS has to say. He/she may suggest an early scan? It may be implantation bleeding.

    Possum - I'm so sorry for your BFN.

    Hi to everyone else! I hope your cycles are on track where ever you are in them.

  16. #250
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    What a lot of confusion and uncertainty today.

    Saffy- When do you get your Bt results? I really hope it is good news . Thinking of you babe.

    Possum - I'm so sorry it was a BFN but its still a few days till AF maybe its a sneaky one if your cycle is being irratic, I do hope so.

    Crafty - I'm sorry your cylce is messing you around but I hope it's good news in end.

    AFM - Scan today showed my EPU will be monday (much better day for me) and my brother and dad arrive that evening so they will be able to take care of me . Still 12 follies looking good maybe a few more by monday. I have lots of bruises from jabbing this time for some reason, but hey its worth it.

  17. #251
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    quickly sneaking on at work to say BHCG= 194- woohoo!
    But, progesterone only 36- not sure what its meant to be but was told its too low, need to keep on the crinone
    Getting more confident, still spotting tho, thanks for positive thoughts x

  18. #252
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    Saffy - I'll be stalking and sending lots and lots of sticky vibes your way!

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