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thread: LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #6

  1. #253
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    Oct 2009
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    yeah matthewsmum how did you go ?

    saffy: good to hear you had a good weekend away and cleared there air, ttc long term is so stressful, especially on those closest too you. when do you start your stimulated cycle ?

  2. #254
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    Apr 2007
    Melbourne
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    Thinking of you Matthew's Mum. Hope the transfer went well.

    Saffy - pleased to hear you and DH and getting along better. TTC has caused problems and arguments for us as well.

    AFM - I slept most of this weekend. So very tired.

  3. #255
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
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    hi all,thanks for thinking of me...1st embryo defrosted survived the thaw,so still got 1 in freezer,had acupuncture before & after transfer,got another acupuncture session tomorrow..had some cramping & the slightest bit of spotting when i got home(probably from the procedure)but of course hoping implantation,so have spent most of my time since transfer laying down.

  4. #256
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    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
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    WOW Matthewsmum- sounds great, I hope so much it was implantation, FX for you and your little one xxxxxxx
    India'smum- hmmmm, good symptom of pregnancy!! Hope yu can rest up xx
    minniemouse-I'm on the pill and start injections on the 10 march i think, need to do a lot of extra shifts to help the bank balance in the meantime!

  5. #257
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    Oct 2009
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    matthewsmum: hope that little embie survived the thaw and i hope it is snuggling in tight

    india'smum: great to hear things to be progressing well, when will you have another scan ?

    saffy: do you work full time ? how do manage working around your ivf treatment ? cause you don't know exactly when you need to go into the clinic in advance right ?

    afm: day 3 of clomid, quite down about it all, im really not sure i can move onto "full" ivf, at the moment im only thinking as far as the injections and still dtd at home, will re think things after that if no success

  6. #258
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    Sep 2009
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    thanks ladies...saffy-remember you can claim some money back from medicare & maybe health fund if your in one(know it's not all that much,but every little bit helps)...minniemouse-hope 'o' comes round quicker this time for you...afm-seen acupuncturist again,i didn't know bananas were bad for you after transfer,were always learning things aren't we?also she said if i get any spotting or cramping she'll mix me up some concoction which may help..

  7. #259
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    WA
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    FX matthewsmum hope your embie is burrowing in for the long ride ahead !
    saffy glad you had a good weekend away clear the air a bit onwards and upwards as they say !
    minniemouse take it a day at a time you will make the decision when you need to either way !

    afm just trucking along waiting for signs of ovulation nothing as yet !

  8. #260
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    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
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    hi girls,

    crafty- hope you don't have to wait to long, all we seem to do is wait, wait, wait, good luck xxx

    minniemouse- I only work 3 shifts a week, but do extra shifts if its convenient. We decided it would be impossible to work more and do ivf, my workplace has been very understanding and my NUM is supportive and gives me time off at short notice. I have no idea how people work fulltime and do ivf, esp people who go back to work straight after transfers etc. Someone I work with who is 40 or 41, did the injections and dtd, and it worked for her, so maybe that would be good for you xxx

    matthewsmum- I've already got my rebate! It came really quickly, and I've factored that in, thanks for the reminder. Why are bananas bad? I've never heard it and eat them a lot, although maybe not as much now they will be scarce! Are you still getting cramping? I have a feeling this one will work for you xxxx

    Indiasmum- I'm so glad things are going ok, you must still feel like you are in limbo good luck for your scan it must be coming up soon xxx

    sunbeam- hope things are going well for you and that we will see you soon xx

    luna-hope your trip is going ok xxx

    loops- did you have a good birthday, hope dh is on the mend xxx

    afm- on the pill, appt next week with FS, just waiting. babydust to everyone xxx

  9. #261
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    Sep 2009
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    saffy-i was surprised about the bananas as well,she said it was something to do with being a damp food and the spleen doesn't like damp foods,and the spleen plays a big part in the blood in your body,she also said to stay away from avocados & nuts....craftymummy-sending lots of 'o' vibes...afm-not cramping as much,more of a tingling sensation??might be all the acupuncture i've had this time,no spotting..Need to shave my legs,but to scared to bend over..went shopping yesterday & when bend over to get something from the bottom shelf,got a bit of a sharp pain

  10. #262
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    Dec 2008
    Leongatha - South Gippsland, Victoria
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    Hi Lovely Ladies
    Matthews Mum ~ hope your lil one is snuggling in nice and tight and stays there for the next 9months, Hope the spotting was a great sign. Never heard of bananas being bad either - thanks for sharing that.

    India's mum ~ I too hope the tiredness is a good sign, GL and FX'd!

    Minniemouse ~ Hugs hun, hope the Clomid works!

    Craftymummy ~ GL with O'ing, hope you catch that eggy

    Saff ~ Thanks for asking about my b'day and DH, yep had a good time. DH is doing very well, on the mend. GL with your FS appointment and this cycle, FX'd tight this is the one for you!!

    Hi to anyone I've missed. Sending out loads of
    AFM ~ Nothing new to report. Its our 4th year wedding anniversary today, despite everything that has been happening we will celebrate that we have each other and the wonderful 4 yrs we've been married. AS soon as DH is out of his neck brace we are going to go away for a nice weekend, before he goes back to work. We did manage to get one quiet round of B'Ding in which was hard with DH's brace etc (sorry if TMI) but he was keen to try and because I was ovulating we had a go LOL. So hoping once will be enough - highly doubtful but you just never know I guess, can always hope =)

  11. #263
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    Sep 2009
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    evening all ,loops12-thanks,they say you only need once,best of luck...afm-got some cervical mucus happening,still clear in colour though,so hoping to get a bfp,so scared of bfn again..

  12. #264
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
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    hi everyone,

    matthewsmum: how are you going ? any symptoms ? will you test ? i hope the little one is snuggling in

    saffy: how are you going with you cycle ?

    loops: i hope you had a good anniversary and fingers crossed your luck changes and this cycle is a good one

    crafty: what are you up to ?

    hi to india's mum, Luna and Possum magic, hope you are all ok

    afm: nothing to tell really, day 10 or 11, can't remember which and can't see my own ticker, anyway nothing is happening yet, i think it will probably be another 12 + days until i ovulate

  13. #265
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    Sep 2009
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    hi minniemouse,got some stuff happening ,clinic have said it could still go either way,cm had red streaks through it,then turned a brownish colour,then i had some light bleeding on wiping,it seems to be gone now & cm is back to a creamy colour.Had cramping on & off as well.Seeing acu tomorrow,she is going to start me on a herbal mixture..Dont think i'll poas ,don't feel strong enough to see another 1 liner at the moment...are you still considering acu for your long cycles?...thinking of you all

  14. #266
    Platinum Subscriber

    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
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    hi girls-
    minniemouse- you are day 11- (I can see your ticker lol). My cycle is just in the waiting stage, on the pill, nothing much else, can't even try naturally cos I'm on the pill.
    Can't believe you have to wait so long to O, how frustrating!

    matthewsmum- I hope they are positive signs, the fact the spotting has stopped is excellent I think, could be a sticky one, I am crossing my fingers very tightly, when is your blood test? Don't poas yet, it is too soon and you don't want the disappointment esp if its a false neg. xxxx

    Loops- imagine if you get utd from BDing with DH in a neck brace! Great story to tell your kids!! Enjoy your weekend away when you go! xxx

    hi everyone else, hope all is well, Indias'mum??? everything on track I hope xx

    AFM- nothing exciting, on the pill, seeing FS tomorrow to discuss my progesterone problem, had a fun weeknd with freinds over for a bbq, so tired now though. I think its 17 days til I start injections-hurry up!!

  15. #267
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2009
    Victoria
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    matthewsmum - my fingers are so tightly crossed that your BFP is close. Praying for you and your embie xx

    saffy - hoping the next 17days fly by for you!

    Crafty - hope your keeping well xx

  16. #268
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    Sep 2009
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    t-hopes-nice of you to pop in,hope things are growing well with you...saffy-bt is on the 25th,goodluck with fs,it'll be interesting what he has got to say about progesterone...

  17. #269
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    WA
    508

    Hi all FX matthesmum its about time you got your bfp and got outa here weve been here toooo long !
    saffy 17 days will fly by then you will be trying again and hopefully a bfp when youv'e had a chat with your specialist >
    Minnie mouse thanks for asking about me I am ok thanks just trucking along and hopefully catch that egg if I get one this month !
    T-hopes hi there I am ok still praying for a miracle !

    afm well not sure what day I am on but been dtd every 2nd day but feels so much like a chore these days think I really am sick of TTC !

  18. #270
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    Sep 2009
    866

    craftymummy-thanks,very much wanting to get out of this thread,taking all of you with me...afm-i might be getting left behind again this month as i have had some more blood streaked cm.My eldest is turning 19 tomorrow,so on with the happy face(for her sake),i feel so old

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