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India's Mum - watch this one closely! I did not want to mention the ectopic, because I did not want to scare you, but since you did... My experience was exactly the same, slow dripping, no clots, not much pain, kind of dizzy. Had 2 scans and two doctors were telling me it is a miscarriage. The problem is, with hcg this low, they really cannot see anything anywhere. However, one big difference in your situation is, your hcg DID double in 1 day. That is a good sign, mine was only going up about 50% every 2 days. We all know some women experience bleeding in early pregnancy around when the period should show up, let's hope this is the case and bub is OK. But I would insist on blood works and a scan as early as possible. They say at 2000 something should be visible.
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Thanks Luna. I did remember your story and it was one of the reasons I was concerned enough to go to the ER. I am having more blood taken on Monday and a scan when my levels hit 1000 (or earlier if they have concern). The bleeding has now almost stopped and I feel queasy most of the time so I'm hoping Monday brings good news.
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hi everyone-india's mum-must be nerve -wrecking for you,all the best for monday...afm-blood tests are showing that my levels are really low,had acupuncture today to try to lift them,due to have another blood test on Mon..
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Hi all
indiasmum fx for a good end for you hope your blood test keep doubling and the bleeding stays away !
Matthewsmum can they give you something to increase your levels ?
Thanks ferrals for your wishes so wish I could have joined you on the paml thread !
afm :crying: well got a test a first response and well BFN so nothing suprising there then !
I so wish I had not given in and tested but I just needed to know as it was kind of driving me crazy all these phantom symptoms ! so no idea if I am day 7 of a new cycle or day 37 of my old one go figure ! really do feel this is the end of the line for me ! :wall:
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craftymummy-sorry it was a bfn,our bodies are cruel with symtoms sometimes...they'll put me on hormone replacement tablets for next cycle if this one has to be cancelled..
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crafty: sorry to hear you got a bfn, matthewsmum is right, our bodies play cruel tricks on us sometimes. i think i remember reading you did a cycle of clomid ? are you going to do anymore of it ?
matthewsmum: hope the acupuncture helps your hormone levels
saffy: how are you feeling ? did you have a few goes of bding ?
afm: no news really, day 19 still haven't ovulated (i don't think), sore boobs now though so looks like something is happening, i think i get that a few days before ovulation so here's hoping i get an positive opt in the next day or so
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Crafty - Really sorry to hear you had a BFN, I was sure it would go the other way. Are you sure about your ovulation times? Since I got older I ovulate much later than I used to. Whereas it was around that day 14 to 18 when I was 40 now it's around day 21 to 23. That's why we BD so long, to make sure we cover any possible ovulation.
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Hi Ladies
I am sorry I am so long between posts - we are at the busiest time of year for my job plus with DH's injuries its real hard to get on here and stay up-to-date with everyone.
India's mum ~ Sorry you have to go through all the stress - wish it was a straightforward BFP for you. Will have FX'd tight your lil one sticks it out! Thinking of you.
Also FX'd for you still Matthewsmum!
Crafty ~ Very sorry it was a BFN - :hug::comfort: Hope you can have another try.
Possum magic and Saffy ~ thanks it is a bit frustrating for AF but she is here now and I know that my cycles will start to get better now.
Saffy ~ goodluck with the B'Ding - hope you catch that eggy!
All the best ladies - sorry for everyone Ive missed with persies but I'm :pray: for you all!
Take care
AFM ~ AF finally did arrive - about time!! My B'day is on the 7th and I'll be 31, really depressing as I so wanted to have kids before I was 30 :( I know I still have time but after 5yrs It really gets to you.:wall: DH is mending well - thanks for asking ladies :)
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Hi girls,
Loops- yay for AF arriving, about time! Milestones in age are always hard, if only we could put our ages on hold while we are ttc! I'm sure you will be a great mummy no matter what age you are x
India'smum- good luck with your appt today, I hope they give you some good news. I wish you ( and all of us) would be given a break and be given a definate BFP with no stress attached but that obviously isn't any of our journeys!! I'm :pray: that you have a sticky bub there xx
minniemouse- only did one BD cos DH and I aren't getting along well at the moment and we both are sick of TTC sex I think. Relying on the FET this week I suppose. Glad you are seeing hte FS this week, hope you O soon too!
Crafty-:hug: so sorry sweetie for your BFN, you held off testing for a long time too! You poor darling, it is so disappointing.
Matthewsmum- good luck with BT today, I hope the acu helped and that your cycle still goes ahead.
Luna- nice of you to share your experience with india'smum, I'm sure it was very helpful. How is your TWW going??
AFM- can't believe I'm having an embryo transfer in 2 days! Its weird on a natural cycle, no meds or emotional buildup ( although Dh and I are fighting which we only do in the lead up to stressful IVF stuff). Babydust to everyone!
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Saffy ~ thanks so much hun, such a nice thing to say xoxo. Same goes for you, you are a very kind person and will make a wonderful mum - we will get there in one way or another!
2 Days - woohoo, all the best. I will have F'Xd tight! :pink-babydust::bluedust:
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Loops - it's so hard to have several birthdays go by when you are trying to conceive. It really makes you notice the amount of time you have been trying. I will be 45 on the 2nd.
Saffy - It would be weird not to go through the entire process for the ET. Sorry to hear you and DH are not getting along. DH and I are ok but sometimes I think "if we never had sex again, I don't think I would care". I'm longing to go back to that time when I actually looked forward to going to bed with him.
Well my HCG is now 280 so I think that is doubling ok. It's still a very early pregnancy though. By dates I should be 5 weeks but I think I will go back a week as I'm sure I ovulated late so I'm calling myself 4 weeks pregnant. I have to go back for another blood test in a week and if it's over 1000 then they will just organise a 6 week scan to see if it's viable. Fingers crossed.
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India's mum ~ thank you. Yeh exactly, you do notice your age when trying to conceive - it sucks.
Exciting stuff, :happyforyou: Will have FX'd tight and sending you loads of :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
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India's mum -:happyforyou: Can't wait for your first scan.
Craftymummy - sorry for the BFN. It's just a cruel world, to get your hopes up like that and then BFN. I feel crushed for you.
Saffy - :crossfingers: for the little embie snuggling in tight. How many embies are you getting transferred?
Matthews mum - how did the blood test go?
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hi girls,
india's mum: great to hear your numbers are increasing, fingers crossed for you this are smooth from here for you
saffy: is your transfer today or tomorrow, good luck for whichever day it is
loops: good af arrived, i hope things turn around for you (& dh) soon, hang in there
luna: how are things going with you ? did you make any decisions regarding the clomid ? hopefully you don't need it after this cycle
matthewsmum: have you had another blood test ?
afm: i finally got a positive opt today, day 22 mind you, sssooo frustrating to have to wait so long for it to happen
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hi all ,minniemouse-good news ,best of luck catching it now...india's mum-sounding good..luna-how are you?..craftymummy-did af arrive?...saffy-all the best for tomorrow!!!afm-blood tests are still showing that my estrogen level is too low so having another blood test tomorrow...
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off to melbourne for my embryo transfer- nervous!! Thanks matthewsmum- hope you get there soon xx
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Minniemouse - I believe I ovulated around Day 21 this time. I can never get a positive OPT though. Good luck honey.
Saffy - everything is crossed for you. I will be thinking of you today.
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indiasmum: thanks, that makes me feel better hearing that !
saffy: how did you go today ?
:bluedust::pink-babydust: to everyone