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thread: LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #7

  1. #91
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    I had my first scan today, and there is a sac in my uterus!!! That is all they can see right now, I am not even 5 weeks yet, but at least this bub has a shot.

    I feel it is time for me to move to PAML thread. Of course I feel very scared and nervous and not confident at all, but I am not trying anymore... I will be stalking you all here, because I really really want to see you in the PAML thread soon too. You ladies are great, it is so good to be able to talk to somebody about the "baby stuff".

  2. #92
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    Oct 2009
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    luna: thats fantastic news on your scan, go little bubba ! im sad to see you go but im so happy for you for the circumstances under which you are leaving ! i hope you will pop back in and update us from time to time and hopefully we are all in the PAML thread with you soon

    afm: day 33, still have no idea what is going on

  3. #93
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    Luna - I am thrilled for you!

  4. #94
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    thats great news Luna, sounds like is a sticky one, hope we see you soon in paml thread! xx

    minniemouse- come on af (or O, anything really, whichever you want) stop keeping us waiting!! Do you still have backache? xx

    crafty- for you this month, go eggy xx

    hi everyone else, indiasmum- hopeyou are going well, matthewsmum- when do your injections start? xx

    AFM- my blood test confirmed what I thought- still some hcg, my level was 10 so they want another test next week, seeing FS tues anyway. Although I think I had some EWCM today so might have to go and buy some more opks, I wouldn't have thought I would start o'ing if theres hcg in my system but maybe its low enough to not count.

  5. #95
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    Oct 2009
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    hi girls,

    saffy: how did you go with the specialist today ? did you go buy some opt's ?

    matthewsmum: where are you up to in your cycle ?

    crafty: how are you going ? you must be in the 2ww now ?

    luna: are you still reading here ? hope all is well


    afm: nothing new to report, day 37 today, still negative opt and negative hpt, have no idea what is going on, i had some blood tests done yesterday and will hopefully get the results tomorrow, if progesterone is low i will know i haven't ovulated yet but how long do i have to wait ??? i need to get af to get the dye test and ultrasound done before i see the specialist again, so annoying !

  6. #96
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    minnie- big , what a saga babe. Soooo frustrating for you, hope you get some answers xx

    I saw FS today, it was ok, I am having a dilemma though. He thinks everything is fine and its just bad luck I haven't gotton preggers, his thinks my eggs are fine quality cos they fertilise and grow to blasty and cos I get reasonable numbers, which makes sense.
    He wants me to do a HRT FET now and try my forsties and if they don't work he will look at further testing then.
    I have made an appt for another FS in another clinic for a few wks time, I'm not sure whether to just go ahead with the FET ( would be easier and quicker ) or to get another opinion and maybe change clinics ( a hassle but maybe my FS is missing something that another FS would pick up on, and I am just wasting time and embryos by continuing)

    I'm so confused! I am also sure i missed my O, I have had sporadic EWCM every few days, did a few OPK which were neg, but no CM now and thinking O slipped past when I wasn't expecting it. Oh well, we DTD twice last week, just for fun so maybe a miracle will happen. Looking forward to not obsessing over my tww if I am in it, will just have a month off and drink alcohol and enjoy myself.

    Sunbeam, when are you back??

    sticky vibes everyone xxx

  7. #97
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    Oct 2009
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    Saffy: I think another opinion is always a good idea, can u go ahead with the fet while waiting for the new appointment ? Although if you are in the 2ww I guess you wouldn't be doing the fet until after the other appointment ?

    Afm: well I'm annoyed & a tad scared, I found out this morning my prolactin levels are through the roof (& mine are usually high), that will be why I haven't ovulated but it's so high it may also mean I have another pituitary tumour *sigh*. I'm waiting at the gp now to work out what to do now, I'm hoping it will just be medication but I may need an MRI :-(

  8. #98
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    minniemouse, thats terrible, hope the gp appt goes ok xxx

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    Thanks saffy, I'm off to a ct scan now

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    minnie- how did the scan go?? Do you find out results straight away or do you have to wait? I hope its ok xx

  11. #101
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    Oct 2009
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    saffy: the ct scan showed no tumour or bleeding, i wish it was an mri though, much better for pituitary problems, so while im relieved im cautious about the result. i have increased the medication i take to try and decrease the levels of prolactin, will probably have another blood test in about a month to see if the levels have dropped again. its so frustrating, its one thing after another and i was pretty stressed last night about everything, it all just seems so hard at times and i have a lot of (health) issues to contend with. thanks for asking

  12. #102
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    Sep 2009
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    Hi ladies I am still luking in my TWW
    Minniemouse how terrible you have so many things to worry about hope all goes well and you get some answers soon.

    My birthday is looming and well I will be saying goodbye I think as I know my time is up ! will just wait out my TWW but not much hope really.
    saffy hope you did catch that egg and get a suprise BFP !

    Keep well everyone and follow your dreams !

  13. #103
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    crafty: i will keep my fingers crossed extra tight for you for this cycle. it must be very difficult to decide to stop trying for you

  14. #104
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    Oct 2009
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    hi girls,

    just a quick update from me, i woke with stitch like pain this morning so did a opt test and it was positive, so dark, i was shocked and rather annoyed because we hadn't been bding because of the dramas last week it didn't look like it was going to happen, im day 45 for heavens sake, anyway we gave it a go this morning and will do it again tonight and then start the progesterone tomorrow

    saffy: how are you ? did you decide about moving to another clinic ?

    matthewsmum: you have been really quiet, what are you up to ?

    crafty: how is the 2ww going ?

    luna: hi to you, i know you are reading :-)

  15. #105
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    hi girls sorry i have been mia, went away for a few days r&r!

    minnie- thats absolutely ridiculous!! Hope you catch the egg but for gods sake its not making it easy for you!

    crAFTY- i'm sad to hear you sad this but I understand. I hope you can still enjoy your birthday, you are a lovely lady xxxx

    sunbeam-will pm you soon xx

    AFM- going to see new doctor next friday, when I have told people this everyone says he is really good and much better than my old one ( could they have told me this before lol) so I think I will definately change ( unless I am utd now haha) AF due next week I think.

  16. #106
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    Sep 2009
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    Hi girls

    Good luck with your new Dr saffy might just be the right move and soon a BFP its always good to get a 2nd opinion !

    AF arrived yesterday so still regular as clockwork 28 to 29days but obviously egg and sperm quality is not upto scratch but anyway won't be telling DH no more Bdancing but keeping an open mind and telling myself it will now be a miracle to get UTD at 46 but hey miracles do happen just not to me !

  17. #107
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    Hello

    Hi Ladies

    I was hoping to join this thread. I often read this thread and think of joining. I really need some support, I feel like I am living month to month, taking medications, temps, testing while everyone falls pregnant around me, including my little sister accidently.
    My husband and I have been trying for baby #1 for just over 2 and half years now. We started seeing a FS in Jan and after a lap that showed no endo I was started on clomid even though I ovulate. We were successful first round of clomid but lost the preg at 5w and we are now on our 3rd cycle with clomid.

  18. #108
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    Welcome Tilygirl!
    please join us, sorry you have to but I hope we can give you some support. Its so hard, no one should have to go through it alone, we are really lucky in this day and age that we can share experience and support over the internet. Sounds like you have been through the wringer like a lot of us, its hard to keep your chin above water sometimes, but i hope the clomid does the trick for you and you get a bfp soon. That must have been hard having you sister fall pregnant like that xxxxx

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