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    LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #7

    Welcome to the new chat thread from those members who are Long-Term TTC after miscarriage or loss.

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    Oct 2009
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    matthewsmum: thinking of you today, hoping all goes well with the transfer, good day to be laying on the couch resting after its done


    saffy: good to hear things are progressing with you, fingers crossed for epu


    afm: day 5 of clomid today, not expecting to ovulate for another 2 weeks. looking forward to seeing the new dr tomorrow, im going to write a list of things i want to ask while im there

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    Matthewsmum - hope all went well, please know you are in my prayers and hoping so hard that this little embie nestles in nice & snug xx

    Saffy - Good luck for Tuesday gorgeous!! xx

    AFM - Everything is going well, almost 28wks now, dont know where the time has gone. Thinking of you all, always xx

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    thanks ladies,embie survived thawing so transfer happened,had acupuncture before & after.Had some blood streaked cm last night but has stopped now,hoping it was implantation but thinking it's probably to early.Probably from the procedure...Saffy-how did egg pick up go?...

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    hi matthewsmum- that is awesome news, FX and toes crossed for you, PUPO again, how many times can we all do this??!! So hope this is it x I will be joining you in a week in the tww

    EPU is tomorrow, they changed it, so FX for myself too. Have to get up bright and early, all worth it!

    Minniemouse- sorry I got confused about where you are in your cycle, waiting waiting patiently, how was the FS appt??

    THOPES- beautiful pregnant one, 28wks woohoo!

    babydust everyone, hi to crafty, sunbeam,. indismum who is probably sunning herself in bali, and Luna xxxx

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    thanks saffy.Are you going under a general for epu.I was only sedated but i know some fs put you under.Suppose your feeling a bit sore,did they change it to give your eggs extra time?

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    Mm hope it's implant! Stalky stalk

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    thanks Joeve but i think knowing my luck it won't be good news. hpt is negative. i was laughing last night when looking at bb, your name was popping up on all sorts of threads and i thought what a busy girl you were lol

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    Hi minnie- my AF is HORRIBLE, very heavy and painful still ( sorry tmi) I am patiently waiting it out, I think she stored up 3 months worth lol. Letrezole is similar to clomid apparently. Hope its implantation not AF xx

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    Minniemouse - Sorry it's a BFN for you too. We need one BFP to get us started they always come in clusters on here.

    Saffy - I'm glad AF is here but i'm sorry she is being a b#$%ch! I always feel pretty good about a heavy one though as it's a good fresh start if you catch my meaning. Mine is only ever 2 days now and very light so sometimes I worry it's not enough. I'm a bit confused why they'd put you on clomid like meds for a FET when you don't need to make eggies unless it's to ensure you O. Maybe that's why they didn't suggest it to me as clomid doesn't work on me. I hope it works well for you babe.

    Loops - I hope the winery helped drown your sorrows. Big hugs.

    Crafty - I hope there is lots of egg catching happening at your place.

    AFM - Well decided against camping thank goodness as it is cold enough inside right now. I had breakfast with a friend and then snuggled in my room with the heating on watching Eclipse . New donor daddy was going to come over for a chat about the whole "how we do this" stuff but was not keen to be on his motorbike in the cold either so I am going to his place tomorrow. He's quite young a little freaked out I think. Poor boy.
    On other news I have a NEW JOB I did the interview on thursday and got offered it yesterday. It is full time so I will have to cut back my private practise but it is only 5 mins from my office so I will see some clients before or after work for a while. I start on the 20th.

    I hope you are all staying warm.

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    hi girls


    saffy: how is af going ? i hope she is settling down for you !

    sunbeam: congrats on the new job, sounds like it will work out well for you. good decision not to go camping if your weather has been anything like ours this weekend, it has poured rain here all day


    afm: well after yesterdays brown blood on wiping i have had nothing since, i really don't know if it is af trying to break through but can't because my progesterone is so high with pessaries or maybe implantation ?? i think with my luck it would probably be af, she is due tomorrow but i won't get her properly until i stop the pessaries. thoughts anyone ?

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    MM sorry you have bfn

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    I'm here was reading not posting as was busy w work over long weekend and letrozole has me in a bit of a FOG. Bit of catching up to do...

    minnie- sorry for BFN, back to the drawing board , next month we are all getting utd I promise, its beyond a joke now!!! Have you got any more spotting? Or will AF wait until progesterone finishes? Glad I finally found you on facebook too

    Sunbeam-woohoo for new job and being my cycle buddy, ?how did you manage a whole FET cycle before I even got AF I love how guys are scared of performing, its cute.

    crafty- I feel your frustration, I ALWAYS O'd in the middle of the week when DH was in a coma from work, never on the weekend when we had time to DTD. Lots of people think they missed it but somehow the little swimmers manage to get in the right place at the right time FX. Tell him you'll get a turkey baster if he doesn't lift his game lol.

    Claresmummy- no TTC?? What are you going to do with all your free time , no charting, checking undies for ewcm, temps, BDing, obsessing over phantom symptoms, peeing on sticks etc etc ( or is that just me??)

    HI loops- how are you going? Have you told your dr about the faint bfp?

    AFM- last day of letrozole, so I must be CD7, sunbeam I think its used to make sure your body is definately Oing and the hormones behave themselves. Having a scan next Wednesday to check follicle, lining etc then OPKs, BT then hopefully transfer! I don't feel bloated at all like on clomid, just had a few headaches and tiredness. Bit grumpy too but i think work caused that not the tablets haha.
    I'm getting ready for our run of BFPs, then we can close this thread down FOREVER

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    Minnie~ Glad you are looking forward to your next cycle darl, woohoo for the positive attitude you have. Big hugs to you.

    Saf~ No TTC for us this cycle, don't get me wrong darl, I was still checking for EWCM and taking my temp and doing my OPTs just to make sure I O'd and how long my LP will be this cycle so I have info for my OB GYN appointment in exactly 2 weeks time. So the only thing we are missing this cycle is the horrible 2WW to hopefully get a BFP that probably wouldn't happen anyhow, so all in all yes I was still monitoring Ovulation but I know I don't have to stress over everything in the 2WW as I know this cycle will be a BFN. Just didnt want to risk a BFP before my appointment so he has a free run to start any testing he may want to do with me, which he hopefully will as my last OB GYN did not do anything no tests nothing just put me straight onto clomid and that was it....hopefully this one will be very very different, FX.

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    Well half way through my TWW well thinks so anyway, had some BBs tenderness but hey beens nothing right still praying for a miracle and still taking the vitex think im getting a bit more used to it now as it was giving me dreadful headaches and I was quite depressed but thats how it goes on this thread hey girls.
    DH had the day off yesterday and we had a good chat and he was sorry he was not upto date with TTC but promised to be upto date in the future even if it means sending him a text during the day to REMIND him what cycle day we are on !!!

    saffy good luck with the scans and lets hope these BFPs start coming soon and we get out of this thread !
    sunbeam how you doing when do you get to egg pick ?

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    Hi Lovlies,

    Sick in bed with a horrid cold today!

    Crafty - Do you think you didn't O at all or will it just be a late one? I will be back on OPKs now and will have to test cd13-cd25 as I can O anytime between cd17 and cd26! I'm sorry DH has been difficult but I'm glad you guys worked it out. That is weird that the vitex makes you depressed it has quite the opposite effect on me and I will continue to take it pretty much forever as it helps with my mood. I hope the sore BBs is the first sign of your miracle.

    Minniemouse - I'm sorry it was a BFN but that's good that you are all ready to go with the clomid.

    Saffy - That is crazy that I went through a whole FET while you waited for AF. I'm glad the Letrozole hasn't been too hard on you. I don't get the whole scared of performing it's not like it's something they don't do on a pretty regular basis usually anyway!! Boys!!! And totally yes to bringing on the BFP run it has been ages.

    Claire'smummy - I really hope your new FS is on the ball your last one sounds pretty slack. I have to say from my 4 months off it is nice to have a stress free cycle not checking for symptoms every minute of the TTW.

    AFM - Well I am all booked for a scan to check follie size and lining on the 27th, cd15. I will be doing OPKs too so I'll make sure I don't miss it, if by some miracle I O before cd17 ( it never happened in 3 years of charting). My 50 OPKs arrived in the post yesterday so i feel all set. We are not getting Donor daddy's swimmers checked at this point as I don't want to put any extra pressure on him but given that his partner has a 9 month old and is 15 weeks pregnant I'm guessing they can't be too bad!