india's mum-thanks...saffy-when is your bt due?thinking of you ...minniemouse-has 'o' arrived?..
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india's mum-thanks...saffy-when is your bt due?thinking of you ...minniemouse-has 'o' arrived?..
Saffy hang on in there its not over yet ! beleive in the impossible it can happen and does a BFP I mean !!! will be waiting for your announcement !
Matthews mum glad you have an apt with fs and start taking the pill don't give up yet I am still here trying and so must you ! he who dares wins !
not been on here much but still keep an eye on all of you !
FX we get some BFPS here soon,
AFM well AF turned up in full swing friday ! ( at least I was on time seems I am back to a 29day cycle ) so glad about that really, she was very heavy and painful this time so hopefully thats a good sign for me ! and will be giving it all I have to try before my 46th birthday on the 26th April,
sticky vibes and good luck to all of you on this thread !!!!
Saffy - Spotting is not a bad sign. I spotted with this pregnancy for 3-4 days before I got a positive test result. But I agree, all that hope and then setbacks drives you crazy!! When is your BT?
Crafty - Good luck this month.
Hello to everyone else, I have been watching this thread and thinking of you all.
Bt is on thurs, but might bring it forword as having quite bad cramps all afternoon and evening, have taken panadol, and still spotting ( sorry if tmi but blood on the end of crinone applicator too) so pretty sure its over - worst thing is I have to go to work tonight and put on a brave face!
Thanks for your thoughts, I hope of course that it is going to be ok but I really don't hold out much hope boohoo
saffy: positive thoughts and :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy: for you, i can feel your stress in your post, its so awful waiting and wondering, fingers crossed for you
matthewsmum: when is your specialist appointment ?
afm: day 22 and still no positive opt ! yesterday was almost positive but today negative, the last few cycles i have been in agony with ovulation so im sure i haven't missed it.
im joining saffy in frustration city !
and to add insult to injury i have bad hayfever today, have been sneezing all afternoon and feel dreadful, the last thing i want to do is bd tonight but have too
Saffy: I don't know how you manage to work at a time like this, especially in your job ! I'd want to be curled on the lounge not moving (which you probably want to do). I hope the night goes quick for you & I hope the cramping is implantation
Saffy - you poor thing, hope you at least have an easy day at work. YOu should be on a couch with a tub of icecream, or in bed taking a nap until Thrusday.
My body is playing mind games with me. I felt cramps like AF is about to start 8 DPO. Then they went away. I took my bra off yesterday and I swear it felt like my bbs hit the floor. Painful. Today, 11DPO, bbs not sore, some more cramping that went away again. At least my LP is > 10 days now, so the cycle looks more normal, not like the last one. But I do not think I can go through this one more time, I think this is it for me. My husband is planning summer vacation and I cannot even get excited about it because I am thinking "I should save my time off in case I am pregnant..." It's like my whole life is on hold for something that may never happen.
Saffy: Stopping by to wish you luck. The waiting and watching for symptoms is so hard. I'm sure work is the last thing you feel like doing tonight. Hoping the bleeding is just implantation.
Mathew'smum: very sorry that this cycle has not given you your BFP. Are you hoping to try again soon? Do you need to stim again if so?
Luna: The 'life on hold thing' is very hard. I got to the point where I felt i needed to act as if it might not happen and then trust that i'd work around it if it did. Because even if things do go well we have so little control over timing of a BFP. You can only be 'on hold' for so long.
Minniemouse: Poor you with the hayfever and BD duty coming at the same time! Hope you get your positive OPK soon!
India's mum: Glad to hear things are going well.
Craftymummy: Glad you feel heartened by good going AF and feel hopeful about this month.
AFM: all going well at the moment. I'm halfway there. Thinking of everyone in here.
Saffy - praying for your little miracle. youre in my thoughts xx
thanks girls,
I've just been in to have my BT, bleeding and cramping overnight, settled a bit now but still some bleeding. To add more confusion I did a poas when I got home from work and it had a VERY faint second line arrrgggghhhhhh, won't get results til tomorrow arvo and will be at work but realistic about my chances ( ie slim).
Work was difficult but got through it.
minnie- god I hate forcing myself to dtd esp with a blocked nose, hope you got that eggy and are on your way to the tww x
luna- I know how you feel, re putting your life on hold. Good that you got a normal LP, I hoe those symptoms are the start of good news??
crafty-do you mean that this is your last month????? Wishing you a birthday surprise x
matthewsmum- hope you are feeling ok, I can't bear the thought of having to go back on the pill again, but its looking that way. Did you always do natural FETs? I think my FS is making me do a HRT one next time cos my last FET was a stuff up.
hi indiasmum, thopes and possummagic- how are your bellies going?? You girls will be pushing those bubs out before we know it! Bellyrubs xxx
Saffy - A second line!!!!!!! Don't give up hope. It's exactly what happened with me, bleeding and cramping (really bad at times). I actually went to the hospital as I thought I was miscarrying. I have everything crossed for you my sweet girl. When do you get the results? And when will they do a second test to see if it's increasing?
oh saffy ! a second line, I 2nd when will you get the result ? you must be in turmoil now ! everything still crossed (and i mean EVERYTHING, no dtd here tonight lol)
Luna: we are feeling the same about life on hold, we want to plan some trips this year but are in 2 minds of when to do it as who knows what will be happening cycle wise.
fingers crossed for a normal luteal phase and a bfp at the end of it :-)
Possum magic: thanks for keeping an eye on us, wow half way already, how are you feeling ?
afm: my gosh last night was a nightmare, i was so sick and went to bed at 9pm but we had to dtd, not fun. anyway day 23 today and still negative opt, im beginning to stress i have somehow missed it, i can't see how and i usually have long cycles but im normally seeing a positive opt by now. i wouldn't normally care but i have the progesterone to use this time and im scared i should have started it already ! why is this so hard !!
Yes, Saffy, the same thing happened to India's Mum and look at her now! I always think that if you go IVF, you have more chance of initial bleeding because maybe they "scratch" something during the procedure or all the injections you have to do are driving your body bananas. I never went through IVF, so I am probably wrong, but that is how I imagine it. Anyhoo, a line is a line, and at this stage, of course it will be very faint, it is very very early.
minniemouse - are you taking anything for your cold? I am wondering if either the medication, or the cold itself is somehow delaying the ovu. Gosh, who would think that DTD with your beloved husband can be such a torture, right? I had a few of those, and I had to fake at least initial enthusiasm, because DH does not want to "torture" me otherwise. He still believes sweet luuuuving is for fun only. Oh, the innocence...
Girls, please convince me NOT to test!!!! I'd rather see red on the panties than the fat ugly NOT PREGNANT on the test. It is day 12 today, which means nothing of course, except that for sure my cycles are back to normal, so at least I'm happy about that. BBs not sore anymore :-(. I think it is the stupid bra that I was wearing that was making them sore.
Saffy: what's happening today ? did you get your blood test results back ? Did you poas again ? Thinking of you
Luna: how r u ? Did you hold out from testing ? Fingers crossed for you ! Yep bding shouldn't be a chore, it's hard isn't it
afm: day 24 & still negative opt, I'm sssoo frustrated, every day I think hopefully tomorrow but everyday I'm disappointed
minniemouse - still nothing? this really IS torture. And then you still have to go through tww.
Saffy - hoping for a good BT test today, waiting impatiently for your results.
afm - managed not to test, and now I do not even feel the urgency. I thought my bbs were sore, but it went away now. One of you ladies wrote about breast tendernests at 7 dpo that goes away later. I think this is what happened to me. But I am still hoping of course, how could you not?
Hi girls, sorry i was at work last night til late.
BHCG was 20 ( classified as inconclusive by my clinic as it was taken on day 14 after transfer, god my clinic is annoying) but its irrelelvant anyway as I got AF tuesday night, very painful but its settling down now.
So, I have to go back next week for another test to check its gone down, which it will have. Sigh.
Back to the drawing board. Thanks for the wishes :grouphug: you girls are the greatest.
Luna- my boobs were sore and hard in the 1st week of hte tww then went away, I think it was from the trigger injection I had though. Hoping for a sneaky bfp for you xx
minniemouse-can't believe you are still waiting ( and you forced yourself to dtd for nothing lol), have you been checking your mucous?? My body is really annoying me at the moment, I bet you feel the same. You must be going through boxes of OPKs. Hugsbabe xxxxx
Hi everyone else- Sunbeam -will still be here in May now so we will do it together xx
saffy: :hug::hug: for you, im so sorry to hear you got positive hcg and then af arrived, its not fair
yep your right about the bding that wasn't needed, thats part of my problem forcing myself to do it, there may not be any point at all (i know that sounds terrible), im beginning to think i won't ovulate this cycle
saffy - sending you lots of love and strength xx