Saffy - my love I am so sorry. Words fail me.:hug:
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Saffy - my love I am so sorry. Words fail me.:hug:
Oh Saffy I am so so sorry it was not a long awaited BFP for you, I had everything crossed. I will be right there with you when we defrost our snowbubs next month :comfort: All the IVF babies I know were snowbubs which makes me very hopeful. :crossfingers:
I have started back doing acupuncture which of course has started all the thoughts about TTC again! I was really enjoying not obsessing about it for the last few months. I also got fantastically exciting news tonight that if my frosties do not work I now have another willing donor waiting in the wings. I guess it might seem odd and much as I don't really want to start over but it feels like it has taken the pressure off. He is a gorgeous young guy with 2 kids of his own and a 3rd on the way :dance:
Saffy - I am so sad it did not work. Life is just so cruel, to tease you with the line like that. I wish you strenght for the next cycle, hugs honey.
Ladies, I got a :bfp: this morning :o Now I am dying from fear that it may be another ectopic....
It won't be ectopic Luna. It will be a happy, healthy, sticky bub!:stickyvibesgirl:
luna: oh my goodness congratulations ! :happyforyou::stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
saffy: thinking of you
matthewsmum: did you see the specialist ?
afm: day 27, today's opt was almost positive but tonights is negative so im really not believing any of them anymore
Luna!!!!!! :dance: thrilling news, I'm sure everything will be A-OK this time :dance:
( your sixth sense was right- you knew something was up- clever!)
hi everyone...congratulations luna!!!afm-saw fs & he is keen to do another stim cycle using my own eggs,so i'm going to give it another go,start the nose spray soon..saffy-i've had 1 fresh, 1hrt fet & the other 3 have been natural fet(as natural as ivf can get anyways).Have you made any decisions on what's next?..
HI everyone,
mathewsmum- thats good, stim cycles aren't that bad ( am I delusional?), and you've get a great chance still, you must have got lots of frosties last time! Glad you are straight into it! I am having another BT next week then see FS the tuesday after. It will depend what he says as to whether I get a 2nd opinion or not. xx
minniemouse- that is ridiculous, so hard to work out if opks aren't reliable, hugs xx
Luna- hope you aren't too petrified and can spend some time celebrating xx
Sunbeam- I would love to not think about ttc for a while!! See you soon xx
afm- seeing fs in 1 1/2 wks, also got the guts to ring another clinic and have an appt booked in w that dr for about 3 wks time. If my FS won't do any further tesing I will go and talk to the other guy. Otherwise I am a bit lost, a few preg announcements IRL and feeling flat. Wondering if my eggs are jus cr@p, always had a thought in the back of my mind that if this was the case I would use my siser's eggs ( she's offered to donate) but just did some investigating and realised one of hte criteria is the donor has to have finished their family (my sister is gay and single, no kids) so maybe it wouldn't even be allowed- feeling a bit scared that my last resort is gone- I know i am jumping the gun big time!!
babydust everyone x
Hi everyone
Firstly big congrats LUNA ! well done girl fx for a long and healthy preg.
Saffy so sorry it was a BFN for you but keep going girl you will get there and as for your eggs well I am sure they are ok ( not like mine 46yrs old nearly )
Matthews mum so glad your still giving it all you have you really deserve a BFP sooner rather than later you are about the only girl I know whos been on here as long as me ( not that some haven't been on here that long just that I remember you being here when I first joined thats all )
Sunbeam nice to see your name again !
minniemouse when you don't ovulate on time its so anoying but keep trying you never know you might just catch that sneaky egg when you didn't realize it !
afm well getting ready to do some serious Bdancing and pray I am still in with a chance as my birthday looms nearer oh well can't stop the clock but I can give it all I can to try !
Hi Ladies, thank you so much for your congratulations and encouragement, but I am too petrified... Part of me does not want to even accept that I am pregnant, not until we see this bub in its right place. I think I have to wait about a week for that. Then on the other hand, I just want to be happy and celebrate every minute. It may be the hormones, but pregnancy makes me really, really happy. If I discovered this any earlier, I think I would have about 12 kids now, LOL. I am going to wait a bit with the ticker and going to pregnant thread thought. Last time I was posting "goodbye" message almost the same day as "let me introduce myself".
minniemouse - are you checking for O any other way than the sticks? They are not accurate for everybody.
Saffy - they can do the genetic testing on the eggs, have you thought about it? At least you would know if they are c***p or not. It is very strange about the donor criteria. Here, in the states, college girls do the egg donation. They have this restriction for surrogates, but not for egg donors. For egg donors, they just have to be under 35 I think. But your laws may be different, so probably that is why. Or maybe it is a precaution in case something goes wrong with the donor during the donation? But anyway, how are they going to say whether somebody finished their family or not? I mean, if your sister says "I do not want to have kids, ever", they are just not going to accept it? And even if somebody has 6 kids and is done, how can they be sure they do not change their mind in 2 years? A bit odd restriction IMHO.
matthew's mum, Sunbeam, craftymummy - I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.
saffy: :hug: it really isnt fair. what does your clinic say about egg quality ? it must be ok if you get good embies ? interesting about your sister offering her eggs, is she planning on kids one day herself ?
Luna: :hug: for you too, i can understand the fear, sending positive thoughts & sticky vibes and looking forward to hearing about your scan. will you have blood tests in the meantime ?
for the last 4 cycles the opt's have been accurate for ovulation so who knows what is happening this cycle
crafty: good luck for you, fingers crossed. we would be covered if i have ovulated but i have been using the progesterone so there isn't any hope of success
matthewsmum: good to hear you are moving forward with a plan
afm: day 29 still no clear sign of ovulation, the last few cycles have been very predictable, positive opt around day 22 & ovulate the next day and i have had no positive and no ovulation pain. to add insult to injury i now have the flu and am ssoo sick, im almost hoping i don't get a positive now cause i just can't dtd
Saffy: very sad for you that this cycle was a chem pregnancy. I hope you and Sunbeam will have lovely snowbabies at the same time!
Minnie mouse: Get well, get well! Sending you healthy vibes. Sorry to hear you are sick : ( Sooo frustrating about waiting for ovulation. Doesn't the clomid trigger it?
Crafty: hope you are going well
Mathewsmum: Hope this next cycle is a winner for you too.
Luna: Good news! I hope this baby is snuggled in just the right spot for you!
I had the BT, the hcg levels were 897, so for 4w3d, I take this as a very good sign. I have a repeat on Thursday, but I am already getting a bit excited.
thas a great number Luna!! Hope you feel reassured from that (?? twins !!??), try and relax you have a strong little one there xx
minnie- can you call your dr and get a blood test to check to see if you have o yet? I think they can check progesterone levels to tell, annoying for you when you have the progesterone supps waiting xx
possummagic- hi mate, hope you are well have you had your 20wk scan yet?
crafty- good luck for a birthday bub xx
hi matthewsmum, sunbeam, thopes, loops, indiasmum, who else??
afm- blood test today, was in limbo for a while as I was still getting faint 2nd lines on hpt until yesterday but almost gone now, so hopefully its dropped to nothing so I can move on with my next cycle. Seeing FS next tuesday.
Luna: they are great numbers, congrats ! :hug::stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
possum magic: i know i say it all the time but thanks for checking on us :-) im with saffy, have you had your scan ?
saffy:so sorry to hear your line is disappearing even though you knew it would, its still sad you get so close. i hope the numbers are good so you can get onto the next cycle
afm: im now thinking i will get af soon, i could go get a blood test but honestly im so sick its all i can do to get up and have a shower at the moment ! by the time im well enough i will probably know either way
Saffy you have been so close the last 2 trys I just know it will be 3rd time lucky for you try to be positive your so close !
possum wow 20wks already !
minnie get well soon and FX your BFP is just around the corner.
Matthewsmum getting ready to go again ?
Luna fantastic numbers great stuff !
sunbeam not long now and maybe you will be on here a bit more hey !
afm day 13 and lots of cm so FX this is my month after waiting and waiting 18mnths now since my mc come on body just one more time please give me a good egg and a BFP !!!!:pray::pray::pray::pray:
crafty: get busy ! good luck
im getting backache now so think i'll see af by tomorrow, at least that will bring an end to this confusing frustrating cycle