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  1. #1
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    May 2009
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    Hi lovelies
    Just popping in quick as I am at work.

    Minnie - Awesome news on your numbers but I think we can all sympatise will the stress of early pg. Hoping and praying it all continues smoothly.

    Claire'smummy- Good to hear you survived the outlaws without any big dramas. Hoping AF holds off for better news.

    Saffy - Whoo excellent news babe roll on saturday. How many frosties are you putting back? I hope the cat and work dramas have sorted themselves out.

    Loops - It says one day to testing, anything happening?

    AFM - Whinge alert! I'm over it today, just feeling fed up with life. I'm bored with my new job already, bored with TTC, just bored! 40 is looming very close and I think its about time for a change of pace. Think I might be heading to Vietnam after Christmas if things do not change soon. Sorry, whinge over! AF was quite minimal and only 2 days as usual. I have a scan next wed to see how my eggies are going for this cycle.

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    Dec 2008
    Leongatha - South Gippsland, Victoria
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    Ohh Sunbeam ~ , I feel that way too sometimes so I feel your pain. Its hard when the one thing out of life you truly want we struggle to get. A holiday would probably be an excellent idea or would you be going for good?
    Hope you get a really good scan hun.

    I'm trying not to test because of the chem preg last cycle I just think my sytem may be out of whack and AF may be pretty late and I know it may seem negative but I'm just not feeling it. May test tomorrow though - so I know if its neg before AF comes and may not feel so let down.

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    Hi ladies
    Firstly wow minnie a BFP congrats girl you kept that very quiet FX for a healthy 8 mnths and a take home baby !!!!
    Sunbeam sorry it was a BFN I feel you pain and the turning 40 bit well I can barely remember it ( now Im 46 LOL ) its just another birthday your as young as you feel and besides I have had 3 BFPs since my 40th birthday and only 1 mc so your still in with a very good chance !!! cheer up and look forward to your turkey baster !!!!!
    Saffy great scan results and relax and think happy thoughts on saturday I am sure you will be fine and your BFP is around the corner.
    Matthewsmum Hi glad you haven't given up on us and keep trying even while your saving how can you not try ? I ask myself that every month !!!
    clairesmum hope your outlaws don't stay too long lol
    loops thanks for thinking of me and FX for a BFP !!!
    anyone I have missed sorry I do have the kids on school holidays and they keep me busy so I am a bit brain dead atm !

    afm stopped taking the vitex to be honest I felt so ill on it ( very very depressed and very dark thoughts ) not nice at all the headaches were dreadful too but since I stopped taking it a week ago I feel so much better and AF left and so now I am on day 11 and will start opks from tomoro and see whats happening

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    minniemouse - congratulations! I am so very happy for you, when is your first scan? I know it will probably not put you at ease completely, but it may make you feel a little better to see that heartbeat.

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    Apr 2010
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    Loops~ How are going darl, hope AF is staying away from you, sending you some thinking of you darl,

    Sunbeam~ Good luck at your scan next Wednesday darl, hoping and praying this is your cycle to get your BFp darl. Hope you are having a better day today, and on a good note a very good friend of mine turned 40 this year and she informs me that 40 is the new 30. So on a lighter note for you darl you won't be 40 until you are 50, I like the way she thinks. Take care of you and sending you some cyber hugs to help you through the rough times.

    Crafty~ Sounds like it was a good idea to stop taking the Vitex it's a rough enough journey as it is with out something else helping us feel horrible hey. Big cyber hugs to you darl. Hoping and praying with all my might your cycle is a lucky one this month darl. My outlaws left Saturday morning , it was an eye opener having them here I can tell you, lol. Sometimes you wonder why you even bother trying to be pleasant to people who just have NO idea how to.....Thats my MIL, she is ALWAYS so negative about everything and that drives me darn batty to say the least.

    MathewsMum-Age78-Saffy and anybody else I have missed, hope everything is going well for you all. Hugs and to everyone.

    AFM~ Well finally got all my blood test results back today from the OB I went and seen a few weeks ago, I don't have Celiacs Disease, Diabetes and both DF and I are all NORMAL in the chromosones test, that's a relief off my mind.
    Today I am 11DPO as yet, temp. STILL sitting at 36.6 this morning no higher no lower that's 3 mornings in a row now. Not sure what is happening just waiting around for the horrible AF to show her face. Oh and I start my count down to my FS appointment soon, it's 4 weeks from this Thursday, I am actually really looking forward to going to this one just hope he can get me up the duff with a very sticky little take home bub.

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    Dec 2008
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    Hi Lovely ladies
    Just a quick one from me - BFN on POAS last night, I felt AF was coming so thought I'd just test.

    Clairesmummy ~ hope your outcome is 100% better than mine, GL hun! FX'd tight.

    Hope everyone is well

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    Hi Lovelies,

    Crafty - I think that is a good idea to stop the Vitex, I'm glad the symptoms have gone with it. It is so odd that it has quite the opposite effect on me. I guess we all respond so differently to things. Good luck with O'ing I hope your cycle is back to normal.

    Loops - I'm so sorry it was a BFN for you. I hope AF comes and goes quickly so you can try again soon, hugs

    Clairesmummy - Dpo 11 isn't that quite a record for you? I hope its a good sign and AF stays well away. I'm glad all your tests came back clear that's great news lets hope the new FS has some answers for you.

    Saffy - I hope the days are going by fast so your FET comes around quickly.

    Minnie - How you feeling babe?

    AFM - Thanks for all your encouraging words ladies. I am not concerned about turning 40 because I will be too old to conceive or because I'll be over the hill cos I don't feel anywhere near 40. I think it is much more that I just can't sit around waiting for things to happen in my life for much longer, I don't want to waste any more time. I have decided that I will be giving TTC till feb next year, that'll be 4 years. If nothing has happened by then I will be heading to Vietnam. I have also decided I won't be using the clinic or doing IUI's at all as I don't want to spend anymore money on this. It's not that I want it any less I just need to put some limits on it all. A huge part of having a child for me is so that my life is about more than just me. If I can't have a child of my own I will spend my time caring for little babies that are already here and making a difference in their lives. I feel very settled with my decision so I'm doing much better today.