Hi Lovelies,

Crafty - I think that is a good idea to stop the Vitex, I'm glad the symptoms have gone with it. It is so odd that it has quite the opposite effect on me. I guess we all respond so differently to things. Good luck with O'ing I hope your cycle is back to normal.

Loops - I'm so sorry it was a BFN for you. I hope AF comes and goes quickly so you can try again soon, hugs

Clairesmummy - Dpo 11 isn't that quite a record for you? I hope its a good sign and AF stays well away. I'm glad all your tests came back clear that's great news lets hope the new FS has some answers for you.

Saffy - I hope the days are going by fast so your FET comes around quickly.

Minnie - How you feeling babe?

AFM - Thanks for all your encouraging words ladies. I am not concerned about turning 40 because I will be too old to conceive or because I'll be over the hill cos I don't feel anywhere near 40. I think it is much more that I just can't sit around waiting for things to happen in my life for much longer, I don't want to waste any more time. I have decided that I will be giving TTC till feb next year, that'll be 4 years. If nothing has happened by then I will be heading to Vietnam. I have also decided I won't be using the clinic or doing IUI's at all as I don't want to spend anymore money on this. It's not that I want it any less I just need to put some limits on it all. A huge part of having a child for me is so that my life is about more than just me. If I can't have a child of my own I will spend my time caring for little babies that are already here and making a difference in their lives. I feel very settled with my decision so I'm doing much better today.