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New thread. I was hoping I would be one of those who gets a sticky bfp the cycle after a mc but it wasn't to be. IUI with injects next cycle, probably CD1 Wednesday, 100mg clomid CD2-6 and 75 miu gonal F cd 8-13. Blah here we go again.
Whoo a new thread. Bring on the BFPs. This has been a really long TWW already! I am 7dpo today, bbs feeling a little bit bigger and bit tender but then again I'm on 800mg for Prog. per day so who knows! Promised myself I'd wait till friday to test, lets see how I go Maruschke I hope your sticky BFP is coming soon.
Hope everyone is having a great weekend.
I saw the super cutest baby bean bags on, you know the site where we buy heaps of stuff off ( I don't want to get in trouble for mentioning it by name) I want one!!! And a bub to put in it of course
Maruschke- I hoped that would be me too- as if we would be THAT lucky! Sorry you are back to the drawing board- did you have BT confirmation?
Sunbeam- looking good so far in your tww, can't believe you are 7days post already thats great! What happened with your job?
Hi everyone else, can't remember what else was happening in the last thread- to everyone
afm- well our relaxing weekend away ( stayed at the beach in a friend's luxury holiday house with mum and my sisters and their partners) was marred by Dh's brother texting the first day we were there,to say he and his fiance were pregnant- really shattering for DH as he doesn't have a good relationship with his brother or mum ( who is actually his stepmum) and it was really unexpected as his brother had said he was never having children. To top it off they are due the same week we would have been. I knew DH was really upset, he was quiet that day when we went out for a big lunch for him and he actually spoke to me later about how upset he was when he'd had a few drinks- such bad timing, his brother wasn't to know that was the day we were celebrating DH's birthday (they live in UK) but still.... I feel so bad for DH, I know how much he wants to be a dad and I can't do anything about it. Anyway, we still enjoyed our time away but its just so annoying-sigh....
My cycle is up the creek too- after an 8 day AF, had 1 day of ewcm on friday, Sat morning got an 'almost' positive on OPK, no ewcm at all Sat or since and neg opks since- wtf? I have written off this month already and will look forward next FET.
Oh Saffy that is such a horrible situation your poor DH. At least it shows what a sweet caring guy he is that it hit him that hard. Big hugs to both of you You may still O I read that sometimes our levels just don't get high enough so it just postpones till later in the cycle so it might be worth keeping an eye on it. Then again maybe your little embie just wants to be the one like Mindhugs little guy is, he was their last embie.
I did not take the job as it was back to contract and I was worried that they would not get enough clients especially coming up to christmas and I would not be getting much money in. Not sure what you mean by 7 days in already....it feels like its been months!!!!
Saffy that is such bad timing
Sunbeam 8 days in now when are you testing??
Hello everyone
I hate ttc just saying... I just want to be at the c part I am sick of trying.
Hi everyone
sorry saffy about your bil and his news it hits hard doesn't it but you have to brush yourself down and keep going.
sunbeam fx it was 1st time lucky for you will be waiting for your results, don't be in too much of a hurry to test you may be testing too early and giving yourself uneccessary greif !
Matthews mum glad your still around and it was lovely that your buried your embys hope you got some peace from doing that, are you still going ahead with a donor egg ?
afm well I had a 2hr consult via skype on friday evening to Cathie who is the founder of Thailand Fertility she is a lovely lady and has suffered in her journey to become a mum over 40 with her DH.
I was quited shocked to find out how badly your fertility falls after being 40 as we all know but after 44 every month it drops dramatically I was so shocked and a fool to beleive for the last year I would be different as I had kids already no way you can't change whats going on inside ladies. Well I do feel that we have wasted a lot of time and money on tests and so on over the last few years but in another way I guess I am at peace knowing we did everything possible to get a natural bfp and of course failed.
I am feeling much more postitive that this time next year I will have my baby although I have to use donor eggs I feel its a gift someone is willing to give me instead of a consalation prize and when I get my baby I will be happy to leave my TTC in the past and be happy that someone in the world was kind enough to become an egg donor.
I am in the process of choosing my donor atm I have around 8 profiles and I do have a favourite already and we are looking at going ahead for middle of January. They start my donor on her meds and me on the pill to syncrynize our cycles and then do an egg pick around day 13 to 14 DH and I fly out and DH does his bit in a pot lol and off to the lab to grow embys after day 2 they freeze some and keep the best 4 going to day 5 and hopefully by day 5 we have 2 good strong embies to put into my uterus that will be waiting as I will have taken durgs to get it ready , then I will take hormnones not sure of the names until 10days after transfer and if a bfp carry on with the meds till week 12.
We decided to risk having twins although just one would be brilliant and if it doesn't work 1st time then we have more on ice for 2 more transfers when we are ready.
So that is my plan my DH has been fantastic and helped organize everything and is so excited as I am I feel like the last week my whole life has changed for the better I know I now have a good chance of getting my baby and everyday I get up in the morning and have this feeling of joy its not been there for the last 2 yrs and its so nice to be in a different frame of mind !
Unreal Crafty! Thats great news, who would have thought a few months ago that you would be this close to a BFP, I have a good feeling about you and your twins lol!
hi everyone,marushke-sorry it was a bfn...sunbeam-fingers crossed for your tww...saffy-glad you & dh have each other...craftymummy-exciting for you,definately sounds a lot easy than egg donation in australia,in nsw anyways.i'm going to give the 3 embies i have on ice a go.then make a decision on donor eggs...afm-af arrived on weekend(a natural cycle,so no surprise really),trying to get enough courage to do fet
sunbeam: fingers crossed for you honey, i hope that bfp is just around the corner
saffy: sorry your dh birthday was tainted by bil's news. how are you feeling about things ?
matthewsmum: fingers crossed for your remaining embryos, you might not need to go down the donated egg route
craftymum: its so nice to hear you excited & hopeful, i look forward to following your journey
Maruschke: i don't really know about ivf, are you taking clomid & injections ?
joeve: honey, ttc sucks thats for sure, hopefully it is all a distant memory for you soon
afm: im feeling a bit lost at the moment, the good news is i got my blood test back today and my AMH is "normal" so for now i don't have a low reserve of eggs
Crafty- How exciting, it all sounds super promising that you will still get your long awaited bub. So do you have to do much prep between now and Jan.? Did you decide on your egg donor? Isn't it lovely that there are strangers willing to help in such a beautiful way.
Marusche - How are you going with the drugs? I never mided IUI it was soooo much easier than IVF (and for me much more successful.) Good luck with it.
Mathew'smum - Sorry AF showed, when will you do your next FET?
Minnie - That must be a relief to know you have a good egg reserve still. Have they come up with any answers at all to all your recent losses?
AFM - I was feeling nice and pg last night but its all gone again this morning so who knows! I will test tomorrow, 12pdo. Spoke with old donor yesterday and to my great suprise he has agreed to do the extra bt and counselling session needed to donate our last embryo, shock horror!
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Maruschke I hope your sticky BFP is coming soon.
to everyone
so sorry. That is such a kick in the guts.
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