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  1. #1
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    Oct 2006
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    Mini hope DH is better for o time!
    Hello everyone I am writing this cycle off as we just have not had the opportunity to bd very much and it feels like o has been and gone early for me this month.

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    Sep 2007
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    Ugh I feel like crap. Christmas is coming. We conceived last Christmas (O'd Christmas Day) and miscarried. All the women I was pg with at that time have given birth. Most of the women who also miscarried at that time have conceived again, some have given birth, most are in their 3rd tri. All I got was another miscarriage and a hole in my bank account. People who started TTC when I started TTC have given birth and started TTC again. FML.

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    Hi Girls,

    Not doing very well at the moment are we? Think we all need

    Saffy - I'm so sorry it looks like a BFN for you babe.

    Joeve - Sorry you did not get much time to bd but it only takes one little swimmer to get the job done.

    Minnie - I hope DH gets well quick enough to DTD in time.

    Maruschke - I know what you mean, the people I was originally posting with are mostly onto their second bub by now. My friend who I was pg with (when I had my second mc) her daughter turns 2 next month (we were due a week apart). Its all pretty depressing.

    AFM - I'm getting really worried this is my 4th or 5th month now with a really non existent AF. I mean no red blood at all, almost no lining clots and its almost over in 24 hours. That just can't be right. I am going to see if I can see FS and if he just blows me off with "things change with age" then I'm getting a new FS.

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    Sunbeam - I hate getting fobbed off. I'd be going to a FS who is willing to discuss the issue and suggest treatment .

  5. #5
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    Oct 2009
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    sunbeam: we must have been posting at the same time, yes that doesn't sound right at all, especially when you are on progesterone, can you get an ultrasound to see how thick your lining is at ovulation (or a bit later in the cycle) ?

    Maruschke : i forgot to ask you what your fs says about taking the dostinex, are you meant to come off it in pregnancy ?

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    Yes I am off it now, he doesn't think it is a problem to be off it while cycling (the meds suppress the pituitary gland anyway). HTH.

  7. #7
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    Sep 2009
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    Hi Ladies
    sorry I have MIA for a while but I have been trying to just get on with life and not stress about TTC seemed to work for a while and it was so nice not knowing what day of my cycle I was on.
    I have just realized I am now day 32 and no sign of AF atm I did have a 28 day cycle last month but had a 40 day cycle a month or so ago so I am not rushing off to buy any pee sticks as I have none in the house.
    Thailand has been put on the back burner for a while as we have family over from the UK the whole of Jan and with christmas coming and kids to buy gifts for you know how it is.
    Plus my GP has insisted I give it a full 6 mnths with her tracking my cycles with Bts. I didn't have a BT on day 10 this cycle as it was a sunday and I was feeling **** with sickness bug anyway so although we still DTD several times who knows if it was the right day or not.
    Sunbeam your cycles do change all the time mine sometimes are so light I hardly call it AF and then other times a real heavy AF. I would just like to add I have fallen pg after having a whole yr of hardly any bleeding with my last bub and I was 43 when I fell pg with him so don't give up as long as you have some kind of loss I wouldn't worry !
    to all other girls I know its hard for all of us especially when so many of us have seen sooo many success stories on here with people we shared sorrow with your turn will come just beleive it !

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    Maruschke: so when do you take the dostinex then ? if im not on it my prolactin goes up so quickly and i don't ovulate

    crafty: nice to see you back, fingers crossed you get a surprise bfp !

  9. #9
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    Sep 2007
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    Only for the first half of my cycle (CD1, 8, 15) really that means I only miss one week (CD22) and I'd stop if I got a BFP, take it again CD1 if I got AF.