Hi everyone, thought id come into this thread and share the latest for me! I had an appointment with my FD on tuesday and it didn't really go like i thought it would. I discussed my concerns with him that i was worried there now might be something wrong with me due to 3 failed attempts and 1 early miscariage. Although he came back to DH's problem he said that he hears me but he actually thinks the reason we still arn't pg is because DH's sperm quality is so bad (very low sperm count, no motility and alot of abnormal sperm) i always thought it didn't matter what the problem was i thought once doing IVF we had the same success rate as anyone else does! but guess i was wrong! Anyways he sent me for BT's for my peace of mind and DH had BT's and he is also going in next wed for a DNA fragmentation test on his sperm, my DR said if this comes back bad we may not be able to have a baby together or it will make it alot harder! I feel like im a strong person for all we are going through but everytime i manage to pick my self up and move on i get pushed back down again! To make matters worse we won't get sperm results back for 5 weeks!! they take 3 weeks for the results to come in and then my DR is away then we go to Fiji so we need to wait until we come back, not sure if this is a good or bad thing? i just dont want it to be on my mind 24/7. Sorry to be such a winger but just so unsure about everything at the moment. Best wishes to everyone x