well i made myFS app today and it's for 5 weeks time, this was the soonest and it is the day before my dental surgery so it works out well.
chat soon
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well i made myFS app today and it's for 5 weeks time, this was the soonest and it is the day before my dental surgery so it works out well.
chat soon
I have been thinking about the fact we could have gone to the fs sooner...
I read somewhere that one of the reasons ttc takes ages and doesnt happen straight away is you need to learn patience, because it is something you really really need when you have kids.
the universe offered us the chance to get in sooner, and in the end it turned out DH wasnt working today so we really COULD have taken it. but it was like us saying "thankyou for the offer and chance universe, but we are happy to wait til next month like planned"
its like it proves we have patience and not rushing and all that.
well that atleast makes me feel better =)
Hi Lovely Ladies
Katones - hope your scan went well today and you have a date for EPU - getting exciting now! :crossfingers:
LMM ~ We did IUI couple of times 1st, for some people that is all that's needed. Hope that is the case for you.
Ladies goodluck with the sniffing and jabbing and so forth and I really hope we get some BFP's in here very soon :pray:
AFM ~ Still waiting on bloomin AF but have had BFN's :( Oh well at least by the time DH is well again my body might have sorted itself out. DH is recovering well - even though he has a long way to go. Im looking forwarded to a 3 day weekend.
Enjoy the weekend everyone xo
i've had my cry.....
not a good outcome i'm afraid :(
1 huge follie/cyst on my right ovary and 3 follies on my left :( BUT having said that i only had 2 follies lst time round and went ahead.... and only got 2 eggies both fertilised but only 1 emby was good.... soooo hopefully fingers crossed 3 eggies and they all fertilise :)
i balled my eyes out....life is sooo unfair :(
egg pick up is tuesday soo transfer fingers crossed will be thursday (we transferred on australia day in 2008)
:hug: sorry you didn't get huge numbers katones. Hopefully one is all you'll need (plus a couple of extras for later :) ) Am I wrong in assuming it only took one for you last time? Hopefully this will be a repeat!
yeah we ony went through 1 cycle last time round :) which resulted in my little man Jack :) it was a twin pregnancy but we lost jacks twin at 6 weeks
morning all :)
It's been a while since I have posted in here as I have had nothing to report. But I have been lurking!
Katones...I know it sounds cliche, but it only takes one to do the job. Stay positive and keep your chin up :) I have my fingers crossed for you!
Teirae...Well done on being so philosophical about the timing of your FS appointment. I think I am about to go through a similar thing. I am scheduled to start my first cycle on or about Wednesday when AF comes. DP and I have our last preliminary appointments at the clinic on Monday (counselling and FS) and I was just about to transfer the $$$ into the clinic's account so I could get all of the scripts for the medication when we are there so we are all ready to go on CD1. BUT DP still hasnt got his police check back :( I have called them twice now and they have said they are still waiting to hear back from three other States. They were really nice about it and said they will prioritise it but Victorian law states I cant start treatment until the clinic has both Police checks back...Cut a long story short, I have to call first thing each day to see if it is ready or not....By the way, DP has never been in trouble with the police anywhere at any time!!! So there will not be a problem in the long run, just means I may not be able to start this month....DAMMIT!!! I think I just need to be take a leaf out of your book Teirae and tell myself it's meant to be...uuuggghhhhh!!!!!
Anyway, enough of my rant. Hope everyone else is ovulating, jabbing, temping, AF-ing, etc, etc as you should be! Best of luck for this month everyone :)
take care
n2l
hey laides, sorry katone about your numbers :( but it only takes one! im a bit nervous about my numbers too, i had a BT on thursday and my levels are good booked in for ultrasound on monday but both other times my levels have been really high due to lots of follicles so im worried this time there isnt many? but this is my first antagonoist cycle too and i know not as many grow during these cycles.
Nothing2lose you need a police check?? wow i never knew that!! do you need them in nsw too?? I have had millions because i need them for work, but DH hasnt...and he has prior convictions... (over 20 years ago tho)...that better not get in our way, cause i will be really ****ed off! i have a fair bit of 'it will happen when it is meant to' and paitience and faith....but only so much =P now im worried =(
oh i really really really really really hope your dp's comes through soon!!!!! some people get theres the next day other ppl have to wait weeks...its crazy.
*hugs* Katones
hope your levels are ok oneday thing about quality over quantity =)
Teirie, try not to stress about the police check. If it's a problem you can always appeal to the ethical board. Fingers crossed for you.
Teirae,
Dont stress, it's only in Victoria that you need both Police checks and Department of Human Services checks. It's discriminatory and it's sooooo wrong but I have no choice but to abide by the law :(
Fingers crossed it comes before AF does!!!!! (perhaps if I use a cork?? :ROFL:)
n2l
yea, it is kind of wrong...i just see so many druggos and people who dont want children popping them out, and DOCS being involved and it makes me so mad that they can just keep having kids, no responsibility and we cant...and then people like us and you who want it so badly and then they make you get checked up and might stop you...
*breathes*
and PMSL at your cork idea!!! =)
It's nearly as good as ppl telling you that there's a reason you can't get pregnant, god intended, the universe... Blah blah blah. The surrogacy debate at the moment infuriates me.
Ladies i cant believe they are doing police checks, who are they to say we cant have a baby because we may have a criminal record! but its ok for the drugos to have them and all the bad parents that have them naturally! they really need to be doing checks on those kinds of ppl. Even with my clinic you have to have your rubella and HIV checked every 12 months otherwise you cant do a cycle! WTF so if i had HIV would they not let me have a baby? i know you prob shouldn't but i dont see the reason they have a right to deny us treatment, after all we are paying for it.
Nothing to lose to give you a bit of hope if AF does turn up before the police report, my nurses always told me you can start a cycle a few days after she shows up too? so this could give you a few extra days to get it xxx
oneday: i can understand to a degree why they are doing this but maybe they should screen all people who want to be parents, or we have to do a test or something. maybe a childcare course, may help us mums. good luck to you.
melindann: hi to you.
teirae: this is a real debate, but yeah i see so many people who i just want to take their kids off them and this is just at the supermarket,. but i wouldn't do it. sometimes things just aren't fair.
nothing2lose: hi to you
katones and kass: hi to you both
AFM: well i made my FS app for end of feb so we are one step closer. woohoo
Hey there ladies
Just a little question? How do you cope with certain family members? A close family member, 5 days after our first failed cycle told me that she feels my pain as much as I do but I need to deal with it so she doesn't need to walk on eggshells around me (WTF???????), she has been telling the whole world how selfish DH and I are because we needed to get away by ourselves for Christmas, pulled me up in front of a whole restaurant of people yesterday cos I was hardly eating cos I had THE most massive hormone headache, that night on FB she is going on about what a lovely evening she had and listed everyone who went except for me and says the most crass and hurtful things around me quite often and I am certain they weren't just casual comments said without thinking . . . I am trying so hard to stay calm this cycle but every time I see/hear of her, it sets my teeth on edge. I know the most sensible thing would be to just stay away but why does she have to be such a b!tch?
Sigh, little rant over :(
melissa ~ hun my MIL is one that irritates me BIG time....i DON'T want to talk to her about our cycle BUT she insists on asking me questions....i quite simply answer her question then clam up....i think she is getting the message now....
had to have a final blood test this morning.... three jabs later 2 in one arm and afew digs in the other.....now i look like a junkie
all set for tuesday morning 7.00am i have to be at the hospital and i am first on the list 8.00am
i actually have 8 follies BUT one is too big and they are now calling it a cyst :( and the other 4 are smaller...and the three that loo promising are of good size...maybe my smaller ones have grown??wishful thinking huh??
i am starting to feel really nervous and sick thinking about my trigger injection at 8pm....
oh Melissa!! I think you need to get that horrible person out of your life for a while. I know its hard when they are family memebers, but that is the oppisite of what you need right now. you need someone who will support you and help you through such an emotional time! I'd avoid her, and make it clear that you dont want someone who is so acidic!! (in saying that i only know this person from what you just said, so of course maybe she isnt a horrible person, but those things she said and the way she acted is horrible) *hugs*
Katones GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 i will be thinking about you tues morn!! and stalking to find out the results!!! oh i'm crossing everything for you!!!!!
JBM I hope your appointment comes quick (quicker than ours which feels like years)
we still have 2 1/2 weeks til our appointment....it just seems so far away!!!!! i thought it was much closer =(