Hey everyone nice to have some company here!

Maria- thanks for asking after me. We had 3 out of 4 fertilise, which I was really happy with! They want to do a day 5 transfer on monday as they closed over the weekend. so now of course i am stressing about survival rates - I am reading that usually only 50% or less survive to day 5 is that correct? cutting it fine... And is it true that blastocysts dont thaw as well?

Who knows what else i might have said in there that dh hasn't told me! I think it is a choice to have a general but that really knocks you around (when I had one for my laparoscopy i was really sick after) and the sedatives were so lovely i really didn't know what was going on let alone stress about it. But i still knew dh was there patting my head so best of both worlds.


Kass - i so know what you mean about not getting excited - dh came home with flowers and celebration cake tonight and I was in 2 minds cos we have to stay realistic, 3 is not that many! On the other hand it's great news for us that we don't seem to have fertilisation issues, so even if this cycle doesn't work out we have better hopes of trying again. And it's the first ever time our dna's have met that we know of, so magical and special.

trishy - what a day for your dh, hope he doesn't get stage fright! And a new job as well, pressure much! sending good wishes it all goes perfectly.

trublue - sounds like things are going great and you have a really positive attitude which is more than i can say for how I was at your stage, I was a hormonal mess!

truebabe- sorry no idea about nk cells. Really hope they figure it out.