TTL - Thanks for your interesting post. If I pay $3100 for a stim cycle and get back $1570 from medicare leaving me $1530 out of pocket, do I take that back to medicare for a second rebate since I have hit the safety net? Congratulations also on your embie dividing and now expecting twins. I wish you a safe an healthy pregnancy.

Thanks to all you lovely girls in here. Your support has been great. I have been thinking about fostering and as my step sister works with foster kids have been asking her questions. I know it will not be the same, but I dont want to go through life not having kids run around my house, opening pressies christmas day, doing easter egg hunts, and all the school stuff and I figure if I cant get pregnant as I am too old, why should us and a child miss out on all of that. It takes six months to register in SA, so may think about that down the track. DH is open to it, so we may not be childless for ever