Yeah, Im in the same boat Been in this thread for almost a year and a half. Before that it was six months in the clomid thread Nothing but BFNs. Someone who got pg on the clomid thread is now pg with number two.
I'm always happy when someone gets UTD, even though I am slowly resigned to the fact it won't ever happen for me. Babies are blessings regardless. Who am I to be upset that another is coming into the world. The only time it really stung was when, a couple of months ago, I found out my ex is pregnant with his seventh child. That kind of sucked
Vic- I know exactly how you feel, ( sorry that its coming from someone with a bfp, i don't mean to be insensitive just that i have been there) but about a year ago, seriously, whenever i was in the TWW thread, everyone else except me would get bfps, and I mean EVERYONE. I seriously started thinking that I was cursed for myself but good luck for everyone else, so I do know where you are coming from, it was almost laugheable. What I am trying ot say is that your turn will come lovely, and it doesn't mean you aren't happy for other people, just that you want to join them. Hoping this cycle is the one for you.
Thanks Saff. Its lovelies like you who finally get their BFP's that keep all of our dreams alive. Thank god for some LTTTCers getting theirs as I would have been inclined to give up, but know it can happen.
Was briefly updating my mum on the joys of IVF as we dont tell anyone what we are currently up to, only letting them know a cycle hasn't worked if they ask. By then its more matter of fact and I can brush it off. She tells me to just relax. If I am too stressed it wont happen. OH! Is that what I am doing wrong! IF ONLY IT WAS JUST THAT!!! She doesn't understand any of it. She and my sister get pregnant at the drop of the hat and she 5 months along with my younger sister before she realised she was pregnant. Went to the docs because she was putting on weight and no matter how many situps she did she couldn't shift it and thought she had a tumour. That was over 30 years ago mind you. Crazy woman!!
Been in this thread for almost a year and a half. Before that it was six months in the clomid thread
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