Leis, don't worry about feeling bitter, I think all it takes is one of us to say/write something & you'll find that most of us will join in.

My DD is nearly 4 so I don't get so many '& when are you having more' but when she was closer to 2 I got it a lot. After I had my 2nd miscarriage I'd had enough & when someone asked I then said 'I have to get over the miscarriages first'. Wow, should've seen some of the looks I got. And mind you I think they've never asked again.
Now I am quite open about my IVF, talk of more children comes up a fair bit when I'm around other mums talking kid stuff. Just say I'm doing it, but don't go into more details.
Or else I just say 'it isn't that easy for us'.

Coming back to work today I was able to gloss over my hospital stay by saying it was 'girl stuff'. But it was nice to see that people do care.

I have a school reunion coming up next year & am hoping to be pg by then. Same as you wouldn't like to go back to the 'past' where I'm sure a question will come up & wouldn't like to tell anyone there about it.

Oh, and I was just also stating a point about having a DD, I don't get offended by anyone's viewpoint, every one of us have our own paths.