Hi all,

Welcome Koby! You will certainly find alot of support and information in this thread. I hope you get your BFP soon!

I have been ttc # 2 since Oct 09, so not as long as you (nor the others lovely ladies) but I certain hear & understand your frustration.

We aren't saving for a baby - I have alot of stuff from DD # 1 that I will use & have kept ALL her clothes. So, if we have a girl - no probs. If we have a boy, well I have some neutral stuff for newborn but will have to buy clothes. All our nursery stuff is neutral b/c we didn't find out what we were having. I know I definately spent all of the baby bonus ($3k at the time) on nursery furniture/pram etc... I have read somewhere that the approx. cost of raising a child is $4k per year, so $10k would be about right when you add it all up

AFM - Off to the Dr's today. Have shocking lower abdo cramping / pain since Monday after DTD and it is getting worse. I usually wouldn't bother to go, but something tells me I should. Am on CD 19, so don't think it is O or baby related (too late for O, too early for baby)?