Hey Rhi..... regarding you lap question...to my surprise my lap didn't affect my cycle at all. I had the op on day 8 and AF arrived on day 32, which is usual for me. And it was on the next cycle that we conceived, so I have my fingers crossed it will be the same for you. I got the all clear on my lap too, so I guess I just needed a spring clean, a reboot, and hey presto! MY FS said I should wait 3 cycles after the lap before trying IVF as he has seen so many women fall pg after the lap. GL!!!!