Hello girls -the conversation in here is quite profound I must say! So many of us experiencing so much heartache and frustration. You all are such amazingly strong women -I feel blessed to have found this group.
Lil -chookie - darn the HPT!! how confusing for you. Hoping that in a few days you get a permanent second line. When do you think you will test again?
Ann - I feel frustrated for you. Stupid Dr not requesting a quanitative test!! I had this happen once -was the labs fault -gave me back a +ve HCG when I already knew I was pg from a test few days earlier ( Was having serial HCG monitoring). My clinic just rang the lab and asked them to do level on the same blood sample -could you ring your Dr and request this? Then you could get answer prior to Tues and could even see if levels rising in the test next week. Crossing everything for you.
Shezz - I admire your strength after just having your hopes trashed. Take care of yourself and I am sure you will be blessed with a success very soon.
Jane - I am so sorry about DH's SA results. Must be very hard on both of you. I "get' you on the sharing of blame thing. A very very small part of me wishes my DH had some 'issue' as I currently feel like i am taking the entire load of "fault". I often feel so guilty that I am denying him children he could probably have easily with someone else IYKWIM. Wishing you all the best with your appt next week. At least you will have a plan in place and can look forward to a real chance at conceiving. I'm sure you will cope fine with all the injections -its got to be worth it in the end!
Bec -WOW -you said it all!! Who knows where the strength comes from to deal with what we are all going through but I guess you and Danni are so right -what choice do we have? You say you don't think you are strong enough to go through it all again - may I suggest looking at your gorgeous daughter - you have all the strength in the world. You just need to feel it is the right time to draw on it -good luck to you and thanks for the great words!
As for me, spoke with IVF nurse today and explained the situation -she was kind enough to suggest I come and see her on Thurs and she will do my BT and get results back whilst I wait.She can then call my dr to see if all is ok to proceed.
We are going away with friends for grape grazing festival this weekend. Was organized awhile ago and I had thought I would be 14 weeks pg so was designated driver. I still will be but bit sad that not such a great reason to be holding off the wine now!