Ya, I know I've become like, the POAS police!!!! What has happened to me???? Where did I go wrong? lol.
There's no hope for you MissB!!

You know what I think it is?? And I am talking generally, not specifically about you or anyone else...
We desperately want people to get a BFP because we want some validation that there are happy endings and that this caper actually works so there's hope for us too. That, and we are all lovely people who want success for everyone.