Thanks Mitf ~ you have given me so much hope, you're wonderful xo.
Miss K ~ Once again, so All the best for a H&h Pregnancy
Leabie ~ thanks hun, I try my best to remain positive otherwise life is just too hard. GL with everything xo
Hi all and hope you're all well
AFM ~ I still dont know what is going on with me, I thought I'd do another POAS of course expecting the 2nd line to now be gone or very very light and what happens... its darker than any of the others were last weekend WTF! Pls excuse my french . Trying hard to not get too excited just in case. Anyone have any ideas as to what could have happened? Ive got another BT Wed.
Loops sweetheart, it is very possible that the pregnancy is hanging in there
Or it could be ectopic
I have had 3, all were ruptures. I started bleeding like a period with no pain and then WHAMMO pain hit like a truck. Also, the blood was not like period blood. It was way darker, almost purple and scary looking. I knew things werent right. My HCG readings where low but climbing. I think however, if your FS suspected an ectopic they would be all over it straight away like stink on you know what. You would be getting a laproscopy (sp?) right away.
Hopefully you just have low numbers and the bleed is an anonomly. I know quite a few women who have had that exact same thing.
Big hugs and I have everything crossed for you.
Last edited by sammiejam; February 27th, 2010 at 01:56 PM.
Loops - I that your embie is hanging in there. I don't really have any advice as I have never had anyone i know experience it. This is going to sound dumb but what is a POAS?
Leabie - Hi it sounds like we are also on the same countdown. I have a BT on monday, although i caved this morning! Hope you are doing well during these 2 wks of torture!
Miss K - bet you are having a fabulous weekend
Like i said i caved and got a very faint positive line, but it was there. Had a chem preg first go round so not getting too excitied just yet, but have never seen two lines before! I know this is going to sound silly but the last couple of days i have just had a feeling that something had happened and there is someone down there, not dwelling on it too much.I also had to go and buy a girlfrined a present as she just had a boy, there are so many specials on summer baby clothes everyone, it was so hard not too buy any my DH wouldn't let me
Loops i just want to add that i had an ectopic while backpacking in Morocco, i had lots of pain, was sick both ends and just pray that if i was going to die it would happen quickly, i called my mum and she said to get home ASAP (i didnt know at this time what it was)
when i got home all my pain had gone, i went to see my guyie for updated results for my PCOS as i was moving to AUS (from London) the following week and knew i would need some papers when finding a Gynie in Melbourne, low and behold they asked me 'have you had any pain' i said well not really non more than usual (i forgot morocco, although it could have been upset tummy?) i was 9 weeks with an ectopic about that ruptured as surgery commenced, i was so ill afterwards, i had no idea i was pg, my af was irrugular anyway and i was getting some bleeding esp with sex. looking back i did have sore bb but never thought i could be pg as my gp had told me it would be hard with my PCOS when i was 13 years old (not that i was wanting it then!!) Although they will not seee anything till at least 5/6 weeks in US a bt is a good indication to what is happening, i would get another tomorrow as that is long enough to wait.
when i was with MIVF they thought i may have another ectopic (even with no tubes left, but in the stub part) but it was a blighted ovum as my levels did not rise consistantly.
I would like to add that having my tubes removed last year was the best thing i could have done, it removed the toxic fluid from me and therefor allowing my embie to stick this time round. i was in so much pain with my repaired tube and it just spread infection around my body with every IVF cycle. i wish i had had it done years sooner damanaged tubes can cause so many problems later on so pls do not dispaire if they do find an ectopic and need to remove your tube, it may give you a better chance of success and reduce pain and need for surgery later on like i needed (5 hours in one go)
Good luck to all those still cycling and waiting for BT
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