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  1. #1

    Apr 2009
    Melbourne
    1,069

    Ladies,

    BFN for me. AF arrived this arvo, after two days of spotting. Feeling a bit relieved today, spotting is awful, and so "in-between" so AF arriving allows me to purge the last two weeks and move on.

    We're meeting with the FS next week to discuss where to from here. We're lucky enough to have 7 frosties, but with the new IVF caps coming in, we need to consider whether we do another stim cycle before 1 January 2010. Lots to consider.

    Best of luck to all those in the TWW, will see you again soon.
    Seph.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    1,350

    Oh Persephone, Im sorry hun, and for us to have to go through the added stress of the safety net changes, it makes any decision so much harder

    Best of luck to all xx

  3. #3
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
    4,637

    Seph, I'm really sorry hun. Wish I could give you a big hug There is a light at the end of the tunnel hun, don't give up and keep going strong. I wish you a BFP very soon with all my heart

    Beata xxx

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Mar 2009
    Sydney, Australia
    33

    Persephone I am so sorry to hear that this one didn't work............DON"T GIVE UP! I know that sometimes it seems like it is never going to happen but it does. IVF is such a game of numbers, with a whole heap of luck. We go to attempt number 6 and I was starting to think will this ever happen and then for the 7th FET we put two in to try something different and blow me down one took!!

    Good luck to everyone on the 2WW....this thread got me through some very tough times
    Last edited by jodz; July 25th, 2009 at 02:17 PM.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Melbourne
    1,539

    Seph - sorry that it was a BFN, but I understand the relief that at least the TWW part is over - it's awful - especially the 2nd week.

    I'm in the TWW too but been keeping quiet a bit on bellybelly - my obsession is bad enough as it is...BUT, after lurking, I had to pop in and mention that I too met DH "late" - met at 36 but I was living in the US and he here in Oz, married just before turning 40...and thus, here we are with IVF...if I dwell too much on this I get sad, and then force myself that I am very lucky to have met someone as wonderful than DH even though I wish it had happened sooner

    good luck everyone

  6. #6
    Registered User

    May 2009
    110

    Seph I am so sorry to hear about your BFN. I know exactly what you mean about the spotting. Until AF arrives properly, I continue to think that maybe the spotting isn't really AF coming on. I know you must feel completely down right now but please don't give up hope. It will happen for us one day, I'm sure of it. When you meet with FS next week, will you discuss options re further investigation on implantation difficulties? DH and I are meeting with our FS tomorrow, and I'll be asking her all about it then in relation to us.

    Am thinking of you and hope to see you back in the TWW soon.

    Wishes xoxo

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    Newcastle, NSW
    265

    Seph - so sorry to hear that this cycle hasn't worked out - thinking of you

    Beata - Congrats on the positive blood test - that's such great news. It is hard to believe isn't it.

    To all you girls in the TWW my thoughts and prayers are with you. Best of luck.