Just found out my workmates wife miscarried (ultrasound at 12 weeks showed the baby died at 8 weeks) and today she was going in for day surgery. Poor guy was so distraught - I started crying almost like it was me who was going through it.
Just going to distract myself now - off to afternoon tea with my lady friends tommorrow and a BBQ tommorrow night so that should keep my thoughts occupied!
Buggirl - that's awful - I don't understand how our bodies can hold on to a miscarried baby for so long. I had that too, but for better or worse my m/c was discovered 5 days after it happened (that's what they said based on measurements). I feel so bad for her and her DH.
good luck to the others in here anxiously waiting!
afm- I POAS yesterday and today (I estimate I am now 11dpo) and both negative. I am feeling quite disheartened now as in my other pregnancies I tested positive by 11dpo. I know it's not over yet, but I do think it is for this time. I had got my hopes up which was a mistake.
Sorry been out of loop for awhile - had trouble getting into this forum???
Anyway it is a BFN for me - very disappointed as had blood test Friday and got the dreaded call in arvo but AF has only arrived today so thought I was in for a chance!! But had POAS thank goodness and that was negative so was cautious too!
So I can go straight into a natural FET but not sure how that workd coming straight off an antagonist as I'm sure my cycle will be longer - ovulate later - not sure when I will have my first scan/blood test etc.
We have now had 8 transfers - heading to the ninth!!! Not giving up - as hubby all ok with his stuff and I've been tested for everything under the sun - and only have diminished ovarian reserve. We always have a great fertilisation, freeze and thaw rate so not sure why they won't stick around!!! I even had a week off work this time!!
Frustrating I know but I aint giving up!!
Thanks for all your messages. Good luck to all who are cycling and well done to all the BFP. Thinking of all the BFN
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