Nic & Possum, thanks so much for the reassure. Today I am happy to report no PAIN!!!
I have a almost stitch feeling from bikini line centre to right side but also some stitching on my left and my BB are killing when they hit gravity so I really hope that is a good sign.
I am so glad to hear that you ladies had very similar pain and got a BFP
So glad it's Friday and were all a day closer to our many BFP
Glad I could help. My pain was low right most often and then I'd get a surprise pain on the lower left outta nowhere. My boobs were killing me too - couldn't sleep properly, waking up in the middle of the night to pee and feeling like I was going to throw up (no sign of morning sickness though, so far - it does worry me sometimes).
Anyway, there is not a lot you can do now except stay as chilled as possible and let the embie do it's thing.
Have a great weekend.
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Hi Everyone, this is my first time in the TWW thread, so thanks to Nicole for telling me about it.
My BT is on 26/9 - 1 embie transferred.
Wouldn't it just be nice sometimes to know what was going on inside, especially when the cramping and stitch like pains start and all your hopes for a positive outcome seem to just dissolve into a mess of tears and rants and raves - my poor DH...
I have tried to read everyone's threads below to see who is on the TWW journey also and want to send all my thoughts and wishes out to you all and lots of
Hope you all have a great and restfull weekend - Nicole, Farmgirl, LuckyStrike, Alloy, Bel, Kaydee and anyone else I may have missed.
Congrats to Possums on your BFP... you must be over the moon.
JodieC65 - good luck with the TWW (and same to all the others currently waiting)...I hope Possums good luck rubs off.
I hope to be joining you and all the other TWW's mid-next week, my egg retrieval is Monday. I don't know when my transfer is as I've asked to transfer blastocysts which my FS has agreed to do if I get more than 3 fertilized eggs. So until they fertilize, I won't have my transfer date.
Hi buliej - thanks and good luck to you also with your egg retrieval on Monday and fertilisation. I shall be thinking of you and keeping my fingers crossed. Sending lots of good wishes your way.
Hey girls! Just lurking as I often do. Nixon, don't worry yourself at all at the lack of morning sickness. I am now 22weeks and didn't have any morning sickness at all. And don't let anyone tell you that lack of symptoms can be a bad sign cause thats just BS!!!
Nic, i'm still saying my daily mantra for you and embie!! I had to laugh when I was reading yours and Nixons comments regarding the pains - but in a good way!! Cause girls, you ain't seen nothing yet. Everytime I get up from a chair or bed I get massive stitch like pains. Just the ligaments doing their thing.
Hi to all the other girls in the TWW. I am hoping there is some very good news for you all very soon.
Hello all,
Welcome Jodie and Meo - and good luck for your BTs on the 26th - I cant belive that so many in this thread will be testing on that day!
Buliej - good luck with the pick up and wishing you all the best for getting some great blasts!
Luckystrike - - try and hang in there - I know how difficult it is and how crap you feel, so there is not much I can type to make you feel better because the only thing that will do that is a BFP, but I'm thinking of you.
Nicole S - hope that you are going well and I agree with your suggestion of an AF free zone...if only we could arrange that
Kaydee - how are you travelling - did you end up getting the bt to check your levels? If you did I hope it was ok.
hi to everyone else, wishing you a good weekend.
I'm feeling crap today - BB no longer sore, AF cramps occuring and have my tell tale bad mood and emotional feelings prior to AF, so I'm thinking i'm out. told DH and now he is just in his 'clamed up, grumpy, this is how I deal with things as a boy' mood which makes me feel like I have to be cheery to try and make him feel better! am just so over going through the whole hope and then no hope, and especially leading up to xmas, just the isolation of all of this, just makes me so upset and mad esp as this time we are losing two embies, and prob only have one more transfer left from this cycle...and then i dont know what as I think DH is ready to give up - too much emotional and financial stress - but he just does not realise how much it will hurt to lose this dream of kids and how much that will isolate us, or me more so (the boys still go and do boy stuff), from my friends (all with babies), family cause the grandkids are the primary focus and we wont produce any, and from this town as I thought I'd meet people through mothers group, kinder etc...god knows there is nothing else here to meet people through! am sorry, am just not dealing well with this today...
Luckystrike, I hope that the meds are making your body do strange things, and you have a surprise BFP at the end of this week
Farmgirl, I hope your feeling a little better. I am so sorry that you think your DH is ready to give up! I hope you are able to get across to him that this is so important to you. I'm so lucky that my DH is prepared to go with what I want, as I'm the one that seems to suffer the most. He's still convinced that we won't have too much trouble, so isn't too worried at this stage. If we get through the 4 embies we have left in the freezer, and have to look at another stim cycle, it might be a different story though (especially if he has to deal with me falling apart each time I get AF or get a BFN). Hopefully the meds are wreaking havoc with your body too, and you too get a BFP at the end of the week!!!
Kaydee, I'm glad your spotting has stopped, maybe it was an implantation bleed! It's good that you've prepared for a BFN though, I have too, and I think that's best because it's better to think that way and be surprised with a BFP, than to be expecting a BFP and get a BFN!!
Buliej, Good luck for EPU tomorrow!! I hope it's not too bad for you, and you get a decent amount of quality eggs
Nicole, I vote to change the thread name too!! Hope your still feeling positive, and that that stitch feeling is a positive.
Jodie, I hope your cramps are a positive thing too, and your feeling ok today
Meo, Good luck for Friday!!
I'm feeling a lot better today. Luckystrike, I did start thinking about the pregnyl shots the other day, and agree 100% with you. If the clinic didn't think I had a chance, they wouldn't have bothered with the shots. I've still got my fingers crossed for a BFP, but at the same time I'm also prepared for a BFN. We've still got 4 frosties in the freezer, so that's a few goes of FET before we have to look at another stim cycle, which will make it a little easier.
to anyone I have missed
I hope this week goes quick, and we get a record number of BFP's after all the tests on Thursday and Friday
Good morning all,
Just reading back through the posts it seems that we all had an emotional or stressful weekend - well at least we are on the home strech now...
Alloy - glad that you got your shots and that you are feeling positive. they are just want the little one needs to keep it snugg and growing. Bummer about the move of BT day, but hang in there.
Kaydee - it is amazing what the 'lovely' meds they put us on do to our physical and mental state. Last stim cycle I found that AF came when due, even while I was on the Crinone - about 2 days prior to BT day, while when doing FET and using the pessaries, AF does not come till after the BT and I stop using them - and then it takes 2-3 days to come..so I dont know, we all react differently! Glad that you have a positive outcome - i think it just get to that place where we have done all we can, and all we have left is to just wait and put in place the plan for the way forward.
LuckyStrike - i to am at the stage where the crinone starts 'exiting' the body - great stuff NOT. Just shows that it is a product designed by men in labcoats who have no thought for 'keeping things nice'! I'm glad that the nurses have said not to count yourself out...but know how hard it is to belive in it. Good luck and sending you lots of .
Jodie - hope that the AF cramps have stoped. Maybe they were just the little one snuggling in . Hope you are feeling better emotionally today
Nicole S - hope that you are still feeling good and in with a chance!
Buliej - good luck with the pick up and wishing you lots of embies that go onto blasts!
Meo - hope that you had a nice relaxing weekend and are feeling nice and positive.
AFM - thanks everyone for your kind words - it meant alot . For our first stim cycle AF came 2 days prior to test day, with spotting the day before (TMI), so I'm thinking today and tomorrow are make or break days... Had a big chat with DH and explained that not only am I upset at the fear of not having a family but at the isolation (but not from his family - that may have been a bit too much), and after sleeping on it he was far more understanding...so that was good.
Still no pg signs, but AF cramps have settled so who knows. My brain says it is a BFN but somewhere in my heart there is still hope - prob so I will still get upset when the nurse rings to give me the BT results....
Anyway sending you all positive thoughts that AF will stay away. Hello to anyone I missed.
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hi everyone, sorry to hear a few of you are having a rough time in this TWW and I still have hope for all of you and pray lots of BFPs are coming up this week.
It is such a trying emotional rollercoaster and it takes its toll in all sorts of ways.
try and hang in there until the BT ladies.
My thoughts are with you all. I'll keep checking in.
Love Emma
Hey ladies, sorry no time for personals at the moment work is doing my head in
I just wanted to send lots of to all.
This TWW is nearly to an end for most of us so am ing really hard that we hear lots of BFP by the end of the week.
I am sure you are feeling the pressure and every day we are a step closer to our BFP.
AFM, am so stressed and am trying to stay calm and positive. My first IVF cycle ended a week after transfer making that day today so stay away AF your not wanted
LETS KEEP THIS AN AF ZONE!!!!
Will pop back in latter to hear how you are all going
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out to you all and lots of
and good luck to you also with your egg retrieval on Monday and fertilisation. I shall be thinking of you and keeping my fingers crossed. Sending lots of good wishes your way.
and welcome to the club
they are just want the little one needs to keep it snugg and growing. Bummer about the move of BT day, but hang in there.
. For our first stim cycle AF came 2 days prior to test day, with spotting the day before (TMI), so I'm thinking today and tomorrow are make or break days... Had a big chat with DH and explained that not only am I upset at the fear of not having a family but at the isolation (but not from his family - that may have been a bit too much), and after sleeping on it he was far more understanding...so that was good.
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to all.
LETS KEEP THIS AN AF ZONE!!!!
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