Thanks Mel. I am setting myself the task to find that book this weekend! I find it is also a case of, you don't know, what you don't know!

I think that these couples that go through it must be absolute towers of strength and determination. I just hope if I need the whole nine yards worth I am a shadow of some of the stories that I have read on BB.

Thanks for sharing your experiences and most of all Congratulations \/ on your pregnancy! You can already see that William is set to be a heart breaker I think puddy has some serious competition ahead