Sue, thanks so much for the encouragement and congratulations! Sorry also for what you've been through. It is a tough road.
Ausgirl, thanks for the support. And for clarifying what's involved in a lap. Yes, in fact there's a lot on both ovaries. But it's been treated, though not exactly removed, I think bc it risks the ovaries. So far with IVF, my egg quality has been an issue, though FS says it's my ovaries not liking the stim's not that the endo has necessarily got to the eggs. Though I've heard stuff about follicular fluid being a bit poisoned and it seems like the most obvious explanation of our problems so far, ie that the endo is hurting the eggs. My fingers and toes are crossed for the next year or so. I'd just like to be pregnant, and hopefully have a baby. I don't mind how that happens at all.