Thanks so much for your thoughts girls.. I'm definately going to give it more thought and chat to DH and the doc.. I''ll see if I can get an appt soon and make sure I bring a list of questions!!

I have one question that's come to mind now though, being someone who doesn't know much at all about IVF - how long does it take, from deciding to do IVF , to actually getting an embie in (assuming success in first stim for embies) - I heard somewhere that they make you go on the pill, or something about a spray - do you have to do that very long? At least with forced "break" cycles during IUIs, I feel at least we still have a go at a natural BFP, but if for IVF I have to take the pill/spray to get the base hormones right, then it must be an agonizing wait !!

BG - I'm hard for you that your embie grows beautifully and you get your gorgeous bub in 9 months !