Dont ever feel bad about telling some one your PG. Its a wonderful time for you. They have to understand its not your fault there having problems.

Just be there for her, let her talk to you and all I can say with her going to church is to have faith. I was the same but never felt bad about my friends falling pg but I didnt have that much faith but that all changed the more I prayed. Im TTC again with IVF and I have all the faith in the world and know im going to have more kids. Good luck!!