Linda - the tiredness at 9-10 weeks is unbelievable - that's good news - you're body is concentrating on building baby - it's around now that it goes through one of its miraculous doubling in size in a week things. I'm just going through the next one that happens around 16-19wks now, but I am way less tired now than I was then.

I also had swollen ovaries post IVF and my left ovary was incredibly tender for the first weeks of this preg - it does all the hard work until the placenta takes over. So it's also a good sign that you can feel it.

take care. You'll be feeling much better in a few weeks.