hi sandygirl,

you are totally correct in what you are saying and thinking.
i am in the same boat as you.
i've been ttc for 3 yrs for #2.
my dd just turned 4. she is a miracle and also took 2 yrs to concieve.
but this does not take away the pain, heartache and frustration i feel about getting #2!
i am having my 6th iui tomorrow. i still have 2 embies on ice.

i have not lost friends, but i don't tell many of them what i am doing each month. some of them ask, and the others are just happy to hear what i tell them.
i can understand it would be hard for them to keep up the interest and enthusism that we have each month.

i don't know how you get your head around the fact that this may be "it".
my DH is worried about our age. i'm not.

so let's keep trying. keep positive. keep trying different things. and i am sure it will happen for us all!!!
as my new IVF acupuncturist says" you have a uterus, you are a women, you can do it"
bye
michelle