I was there and it is hard. Especially when you are already torn and feeling guilty because you ARE lucky. But to disregard your feelings and insinuate that just because you have one means that TTC#2 isn't hard because you have infertility issues is very ignorant. I have watched a very lovely BB member (who isn't as active anymore but I'm hoping she sees this) and she has a beautiful little girl the same age as my daughter (who is now 7) and they haven't been able to go on to conceive #2. She was with me during my LTTTC issues and I think of her always, hoping her miracle is just around the corner. IMO all that she has suffered is just as difficult emotionally as those TTC#1 with fertility issues. Regardless of whether or not she has a child the pain is just as difficult. Hopefully you know who you are and the utmost respect I have for you

And please vent as you are just as entitled to it as anyone else