i know exactly how you feel. It's very important that you embrace your feelings at the moment and let them take thheir course, let yourself hurt - get it all out, then let yourself be strong.Stong for yourself, your DH and for the bub you WILL eventually be holding in your arms.
i'd like to share my situation with you, asi thin you can relate: My irregular cycles is what brought me to FS 6 months into TTC only to discover PCOS was the culprit. Well i was given clomid and before i could get a prescription for a second cycle of it DH's results were back...
It was so bad that i was not allowed to use clomid any longer and ICSI was our only option. FS said that the DH's prob was genetic and could not be helped... stubborn old me decided to research supplements for the poor little swimmers anyway. I put DH on a strict regime and with me on vitex also i conceivedthat month (only to lose my angel via early m/c).
Devastated, i kept going... still choosing to ignore the horrid news of our fertility. 2 long cycles later i conceived again (no vitex). However it was an ectopic this time.
I guess what i'm trying to say is, even though you are devasated about your situation still keep the door of hope open in your heart. and just as Farmgirl77 said, there are alternatives.
I myself am going to give it another 3 months (i have my DH on supps again) and then take the plunge for ICSI. We're not out of the race yet sister!!!
Last edited by Elzi; January 27th, 2010 at 06:13 PM.
i know exactly how you feel. It's very important that you embrace your feelings at the moment and let them take thheir course, let yourself hurt - get it all out, then let yourself be strong.Stong for yourself, your DH and for the bub you WILL eventually be holding in your arms.
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