Big . I remember being in exactly your situtation about 5 years ago. We waited a while and eventually ended up doing ICSI. I hope you can get lots of support here at BB - I was so grateful when I found BB at the beginning of my AC journey. Ask lots of questions there is a lot of knowledge here. I agree with FG it can really hit you hard - take your time to grieve. Wishing you all the best for your future TTC
Now I can tell you ICSI was the best thing to ever happen in our lives, the lab hand picked our gorgeous little boy. DH's sperm was even swimming the wrong way . So take heart marcellus may be right - one step closer to your baby. I am also in SA, so if you need anything PM me
Rach xx