I have PCOS too, but actually it wasn't me that was the issue, I was ovulating fine.

DH had poor morphology as well as not a huge total count. I htink his morphology was about 6% normal which isn;t great. I made him wear boxers to increase our chances

He did come with me the first time, but the second and third times were both work days and it was a bit difficult. Plus he needed to do his part about an hour before my section, and we didn't want to both be hanging out there for hours IYKWIM. SO he went and left his deposit and I went and collected it later! LOL

At my clinic they cancell if there are more than 2 follicles. Otherwise there's a major risk of multiples. I had 2 follicles on my successful cycle and we were a bit nervous we'd end up with twins, but so far there seems to be just one baby in there