Soph,

is their problem related to carrying the baby, or a problem with their eggs/sperm? Most people don't require a surrogate unless they are unable to carry a child, and usually only require a donor egg/sperm/embryo instead. Before my sister truly understood my infertility issues, she told me she would carry a child for me. It was only when I explained that I had no problems carrying a child, but had problems concieving that she realised that surrogacy wasn't necessary for me. I still love her for her offer though.

Paid surrogacy is illegal in all states of Australia, and only a few states allow altruistic surrogacy. I imagine that it would be a huge step to take for your friend, and for you, but if this is something you can help them achieve, it would be a truly amazing gift.