Myturn, I understand .

Sometimes I am upset at things said... I know for a FACT that the posters were not trying to be offensive but I am in such a sensitive place that innocent random comments hurt me, and I want to run away to a safe place. I think you want this thread to be your safe place.

I can recognise the need .
thanks Maruschke - it really just was... "ahh I can't handle all this kid/baby talk"... so i feel a bit of a sook getting teary at your niceness but it's a nice kinda cry. thanks. if I could I'd give you reputation points.... but I haven't been around long enough yet lol