Hey Polly, I'm sorry that you too are feeling like AF is on her way.
Makes you think that with all of us who have done this type of treatment once and now twice the end result has all be the same. Sorry to sound so negative but I would have thought that for one of us a BFP would be the result of an IUI.
For me AF has turned up this morning not really bad but am sure it will get worse. No pains which is weird, just getting a little darker...I feel like having a sickie today and seeing if I can make an appointment for my blood test anytime today.
As for feeling shallow, your aloud to be. What we are going through is not a walk in the park. I forgive myself for feeling resentment towards any PG women or anyone I hear who falls PG by falling over.
When you want something so bad your emotions take over and there is no way of stopping that.