It's such a personal decision, isn't it? So many things to weigh up. I basically figured out what my minimum age gap was and went from there.

I wanted to breastfeed at least 12 months and didn't want babies closer than 2 years apart, and, probably most importantly, I really didn't want to go back to IVF within 12 months, so decided to wait till DS was one and see.
But then I didn't get af back till 16.5m and wanted to give natural a try before heading back to IVF - we plan to do that early next year. So DS will be nearly 2 by then.

I do worry that we've left it too late - what if it takes another 3 years after that? - but then I also worried about stopping bf early and still no baby....can't win hey?

Wish you two all the best with TTC No.2