Hi Arielle

My suggestion would be to get your DH into an andrologist as well as seeing a FS. My other half had low count, low motiliy and morph problems as well. An andrologist can let you know if there is anything you can do to help things along ie if there is a treatable underlying cause.

With us we had DH's issues as well as me having a very long history of endometriosis and we ended up going down the IVF path, but we didn't need donor sperm and depending on your DH's results you might not need donor. Sometimes they can use ICSI if there are enough sperm there, or even plain old IVF.

Good luck to you. I remember being at the same point in our diagnosis as you are and it was just a shocking time, I was so upset it wasn't funny, so take care of yourself.

Jane