Elocin, thankyou so much I am guilty of telling him that everything will be ok and we'll get this sorted, not to worry etc. I'll try a different, more listening, approach tonight.

He found it so hard to actually put his concern into words, I hope I don't scare him off by bringing it up.. Maybe I should leave it alone unless he brings it up again?
Don't stress about it hun... I always found it hard hearing somebody else say 'it'll be fine' when it's something that is constantly worrying you!!

Maybe now that he's got it off his chest, he'll be a little more receptive to talking about it if you bring it up.

Ask him what he wants to do about it, because if you start pushing him to get answers, it'll probably only end in an argument - because I know with my DH if I push him to go to the Dr for anything, he gets cranky at me!!

The best thing you can do Ree, is to just be there for him and listen to him. You will get through it together.

Big, big hugs