Hello all,
My mind is all mixed up at the moment. We got a BFN on our fist IVF/ICSI cycle, which has totally shattered me - we have MFI so I thought once we overcame that then we would have a good shot at it. We did everything by the book, except that after the ET and for the next two weeks, we were pretty busy with a wedding, Big Day Out, relatives going away dinner etc etc and as we dont live near Melb, we were away from home for a few nites. DH thinks that this may have contributed to the BFN.

Anyway, now we have to decide if we go with a FET this cycle, or wait till next cycle. I dont know what to do. DH wants to wait, as we have harvest coming up on the farm in late Feb, and we will be busy with that. I can see his point and think that waiting is a good idea - I also want to start acupuncture so waiting would give that some time to start working.

I'm just to scared to make up my mind . I'm scared that if we keep going we are going to use up all the embies and end up with just BFNs. But I'm also scared that waiting and not doing anything is going to drive me crazy and I'm just going to stay upset all the time because things are not happening. I also have a long cycle and so if we wait, it will push the FET into late March which just seems so far away.

Any advice/thoughts?
Thanks