I can't agree more with everyone else.

Reading this thread, I realise how lucky I am. My DH works from home earning a pittance doing what he loves... I work full time and am the main breadwinner. When I go on leave, we can only afford to take the leave I get paid for - but in my case that's about 6 months worth (14 weeks maternity, 7 weeks Long Service and 3 weeks Annual Leave). When I return to work, it will be on a full-time basis (well, that's the plan!). DH will stay home and be the stay-at-home-daddy - so no child care costs. He may be able to continue to do some work at home (depending on how demanding bubs is) and I work only 5 mins walk from home - so if I'm still BF it will be relatively easy to manage.

I'm also really lucky to have a wonderful workplace that is very supportive and so close to home.

I wish you all the best Shellbell - to you!