Thank you so much everyone for all your ideas.

I do have a hard time relaxing but will definitely try harder to do so since that seems to be the one thing that most of you suggested!

Liked the diary idea Aurora. That will be great to look back on.

Star, I also have hundreds of photos that I need to organise into albums. This is a great chance to do that! Plus my sister lost most of her photos in a recent house fire (everyone ok thank God!) so it will be good to organise mine and then copy some for her...
I also need to get my hair done... so that's another day planned!
My grandmother loves a visit, Ali, so might do a few of those with my Mum and have a cuppa and a chat.
76 Stars- I'm a sooooo not arty-farty but love the idea of doing something like a painting to hang in his room....might just have a look on the internet for some ideas.

Thanks again everyone...they're all great ideas!!!