Hi Canary,

I'm not going back to work soon, I've been back for a while now. But I did go back when my ds was 4mts old. Unfortunately we had no option financially

It was hard, I cried, ds cried, I had a few tantys, ds had a few tantys. Poor dh just gave us both lots of cuddles and did what he could to make it all better

My only advice would be is to get anything you possibly can done the night before. Work out your clothes, any bags you have to pack for you or your little one, lunches packed etc.. it took me about 2 weeks of crazy running around in the am before I got that under control.

Good luck, I found it hard at first missing ds so much, but then as I realised the world was still moving, he was still growing, learning and happy during the day without me there (who would have thought they could possibly be happy when mum isn't there! ) I started to enjoy 'my' adult time and a little bit of freedom to just be me!