oh thats hard Meg! I told work when I was 5 weeks PG and that as soon as possible I wanted to start shortening my hours (9hour days on my feet 90% of the time) I did that after a few months and went down to 3 full days a week and a Saturday half. That helped heaps. I now work half Saturdays again and DH looks after Matilda...and does 2 chores

But if they aren't interested, then I guess it is whether or not the job is worth it? Its a really hard call, especially when you need the $$....