How long before going back to work should I be making contact with them? I'm yet to finalise day care days so I can't give them exact days that I can work but can give them a rough idea of what I plan to do.

It seems so much scarier this time. I feel guilty for wanting to go back. I would go today the way i'm feeling about being at home atm, but on the other hand I'm sad cause I would like to have stayed home longer. Anyway.. thats a whole other thread!